10 Life-Changing Things People Have Told Me in My Life (Warning: Graphic)
Throughout my life, I have been fortunate enough to receive advice from many wise and experienced people. From family members to friends, teachers to mentors, their words have left a lasting impact on me. Here are ten of the most valuable pieces I have received: the good, the bad and the ugly. Even though some people do not remain in my life, their words still resonate in me and some have even shaped me into whom I am today. Some were not even nice words, some were actually very mean. However, they have helped me see what was wrong with me as a person and has helped me to change into a better person.
Disclaimer: these experiences are very personal to me and some very graphic, handle them with care.

1. "You're not lonely, you're just alone"
It can provide space for introspection and self-discovery, and allows us to do the things we truly enjoy without external distractions. It's important to remember that we can be surrounded by people and still feel lonely, just as we can be alone and feel content.
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Over the years I have been given loads of advice too, but something that I have remembered over and over again was when I was complaining about just wanting my baby to be born, I was 38 weeks pregnant, I couldn't sleep, I had to pee every 5 minutes, I was so ready for the baby to be born. A neighbour listened to all my complaints and then said "but you have a healthy, uncomplicated pregnancy which is such a blessing" and I instantly thought, wow she is so right, how many women struggle to fall pregnant, how many miscarry... and she followed this by adding"you know, where your baby is right now is the best and most safe she will ever be, it will also be the least amount of work you will ever do, the older they get, the more you will worry, the bigger their problems become and as much as you will want to, you won't be able to solve all their problems".
I have thought about that conversation so many times over the years. Now with a child in university, I often think of that neighbour and how she knew exactly what she was talking about.
When I entered teacher training, my math teacher said: “What are you actually doing here? ?“After all, I came from a language course where math was very minimal. But it was precisely his words, that I would not make it, that motivated me to prove that I could do it. I just hadn't chosen that profession in recent years, which didn't mean I couldn't do it.
I once complained about my parents and a friend said : Then you break up with them ? This gave me the insight in 1 second that I would never want that.
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6. “I don't think you're ready” I started working at 14, at a time when it was important to develop other skills in addition to work. wrapping. For half a day, I was allowed to go to Life School, music education, sports, manual labor, etc. One afternoon, the school's principal said to us, “Whoever is born on a dime will never be a quarter.”. Now, 60 years later, I may not have become a quarter, but 20 cents did.