They can't sleep. The wakefulness does not have to do with the heat, they say, it has nothing to do with the sleep they feel - they are tired.
They both have a little stomachache, which is why they're still awake. When I ask if they know where the abdominal pain came from, they both nod.

Alanis: “Mom..., when we were playing, our boyfriend said something really ugly...”
Amelie: “Yes, but we laughed about it.”
Alanis: “Sorry Mommy...”
Amelie: “Yes, sorry Mom...”
“Now that you can't sleep off it, at least show that you're thinking about it. That is very important. Did you hurt anyone with it? Because then you should say sorry..., I think.”
Amelie: “Actually, it was about you. Sorry, Mom.”
Alanis: “I'm sorry too...”
“Well, girls, it can't be that bad, can it? I'm not mad, I'm not. So that abdominal pain is not necessary for anything.”
Alanis: “You don't even know what we laughed about...”
“Honey, if you want to tell me, you can, but you don't have to. Whatever it was, you are sorry, so you know more than enough that you were wrong.”
Amelie: “When we were swimming, our boyfriend said 'Look what a thick rock! She's as fat as your mother!” When he said it, we laughed, but we regret it. You're not fat at all!”
“Well Let, he was a little right. I'm not exactly thin.”
Alanis: “We should have said right away that it was not sweet and we did not. Are you really not angry?”
“No, you turds! I think it's really sweet that you guys have a little stomachache because of it. You're sweet girls. Sometimes you joke sometimes, sometimes you have to laugh, sometimes you think something - and then you quickly realize that it was not so neat. That can happen - you will learn to estimate more quickly what is an acceptable joke and what is not.
Well, girls, go to sleep well - no more abdominal pain! That's not necessary for anything. Always remember that I love you with my ass!”
Alanis: “Ass??????”
“Yes Laan, I could say 'with all my heart', but my heart is small, my ass on the other hand...!”
Amelie: “Yes, it's pretty big! So you love us very much!?!”
“Exactly! And now sleep well!”


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A joke can be hurting