Everyone, at some point in our lives, wanted to change. Whether it's because the couple left us and we had a lot of blame or because we were doing a college career that wasn't really what we wanted. Change is normal in humans and nature, but it's not always easy. From these experiences it is very normal and understandable to reach the following conclusion: “I want to change my life” . The change may enter our lives as a result of a crisis, as a result of an election or by pure chance. In any of these situations, each of us is faced with having to make a decision. What to do with my life? I think it's always better to make changes in our lives by own decision rather than being forced to do it.

AWAKEN THAT FORCE OF CHANGE THAT YOU SO MUCH NEED

BY: @Carlos Rangel (Yoors Blogger)

Opting for change is not a casual choice or a whim. Most of the time, when we talk about important changes, we talk about an act of necessity, firm conviction and above all, bravery. Because sometimes there is no choice but to change the skin, rip roots and look for other maps so that we can “be”, so that we can restart and find that balance between needs and achievements, between desires and behaviors
Winston Churchill said, with great success, that improving is changing and that being “perfect” means having the courage to change often. However, to this statement we should add another equally important one: changes are positive as long as we don't lose the essence, our own values. Therefore, any variation we make throughout our life cycle should aim to bring us a little closer to what we really want to be. Changing your life is a necessity that you will have felt more than once. Our brain is resistant to change, it doesn't like it, it doesn't see it right because it poses an imbalance and a direct threat to our survival

5 STEPS TO START WITH YOUR CHANGE.

  • Get to know yourself

    When it comes to starting over, the first step is to know yourself. Know what your wishes are, what are the qualities you possess and what direction you want to follow. The first step to change is self-reflection and self-knowledge.

  • Find a purpose in your life

    Self-knowledge is key to finding out what is one's purpose in life. Having a vital goal is key because it keeps us motivated: it is the force that helps us move and that vertebrates our daily lives. However, changing is not only about visualizing the purpose, but about enjoying the path while pursuing.

  • Do it for you

    To do the above effectively it is necessary to connect with oneself, that is why it is so useful to get to know each other thoroughly. Because we often think we want to change, but it is the opinion of others that influences us in such a way that we believe that what they impose on us is what we want. The goals to be pursued must be genuine, if not, it will be difficult to change.

  • Open up to change

    The above point leads us to make the decision to change, and therefore it is necessary to have a good dose of will. Opening up to change means being willing to transform ourselves and pursue goals through a certain amount of effort.

  • Plan for change

    Once we are clear about our desire to change and know what we want to change, we need to plan for change. If it is possible even to have it pointed on paper, it is easier to visualize and allows you to make less effort when it comes to bringing it to mind when we need it. We have to set small sub-objectives and date them.

“There's nothing like going back to a place that remains unchanged to discover how you changed”

Nelson Mandela-

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