I don't think I had heard the term "ghosting" before. It essentially means to just disappear on someone, leaving them hanging. This can occur in many ways – the good old-fashioned "he stood me up" bit – but nowadays tends to occur when someone simply cuts communication altogether. I've also heard this referred to as "blue-ticking" someone, meaning you can see that they read your message on WhatsApp (or whatever form of communication you use) but they didn't reply. They disappear for good. And it happens a hell of a lot more frequently than I first realized.
When someone ghosts you, you’re left in a state of limbo – the rational side of you knows that the person is no longer interested, but you still hold out a bit of hope. There are those horrible few days when you check your phone a lot more than usual, thinking they might just have been really busy (although as my friend crudely but accurately says, “If you can shit, you can text”) or something happened to their phone (though with text, WhatsApp, Facebook, and email, just to name a few, that’s hardly an excuse anymore… not to mention you can easily see if someone has been active on social media)...
Ghosting is such a cowardly act, and not only that, it’s rude. If you spend quality time with someone, or make plans with someone, why not have the decency to text a few lines to say if it’s not working out?
However , that's not your fault , you did nothing wrong to let them do so because they're the ones who are so sick to let you question your own worth ... you are enough and you will always be so just let them Go and don't overthink that trying to find inexistant reasons ... They chose to leave and you need to accept that fact without begging for answers or to have them back ... And I know it hurts and it'll make you suffer but you will heal <3 You were there alone and you were the honest part and that's supposed to bring you pride so please Never regret anything you did for them, if they wanted you in , they would have shown that and made you trust them with your heart.. They're just not the ones to stay so Be happy <3 You were saved...
#behappy #worthy #stop #t #hurt #youcan

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