a) finding love isn’t the goal for everyone. and it’s okay if you value #career or #yourself above love.

b) if she continues to reply late, she is avoiding you. don’t text her and see if she is initiating a conversation. as they say, no reply is a reply in itself.

c) backspacing your feelings will never help you. stop deleting the things you want to say. if you keep it inside you, it’ll eat you from within and fill you with distress, and then, #hate .

d) don’t overdo your responsibilities – be a friend, #lover , colleague, or a son, but keep time for yourself.

f) if you don’t know what to say – don’t say anything. tell your friend “I don’t know what to say, but I’m here for you.” Saying “don’t be sad” or “stop overthinking” will never work.
e) there is no “being equals” in a #relationship . some days, you’ll have to give in 70% and he’ll give the 30%, and vice versa.


g) you don’t always get what you want. keep this in mind and your #expectations will #hurt you less.

i) this too shall pass, like all things to do. it might not sound like much, but it’s true. you’re going to be okay.
h) your friend wasn’t there when you needed her the most. so what? your friend is here now. if you value them, try not to keep a count. if you can’t stop, share it with them. it’ll help.


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things everyone needs to #understand