Change yourself - everyone is your mirror.
I recently wrote a comprehensive article on how you can/should think differently to give yourself a bright future. That article is' Change your thinking, and the world is yours !’
Because I got so many nice reactions, I'm writing a sequel. That article was a great start, it works and now you have many other questions. I answer 1 of those questions today, from my own problem situation.
You see, at the beginning of 2017 I wasn't who I am today. Today I grew strong, I stand up for myself and I don't let myself chafe anymore. I stand strong in my shoes, in just about every way.
It was a long learning process, which was very painful, but I would do it again. In fact, I do it every day. And it makes me happy.