At a quarter to three this afternoon, my phone rang. A 06 number unknown to me. As I usually do with unknown songs, I only record with hello. A teacher from my twins school. If I'm aware that there are pictures of my youngest daughter going around. My heart is now beating about 250 beats per minute. And much more than “No, I don't know, “I don't know.

There are two classes in my twins first year of high school. Our son's in one, our daughter's in another. Consciously so that they make their own friends and do not keep sticking to each other like that. Very important for practical education what they follow, that they both develop in their own way at their own pace and see less of each other so that they reflect less.

The teacher tells me that a classmate of our son has come to him that there are pictures of our daughter with the most terrible texts underneath. One of the lyrics that are pasted underneath is 'I want to know n**ken'. I don't know what to say about silly. He assures me that he will do everything he can to prevent it from spreading further and being on top of it.

I'm paralysed I'm talking to my daughter, she had caught something and says she thought
that everything was already gone. The advantage of a small practice school is that there are short lines, also with the teachers. My girlfriend's daughter has been at school for several years and has short lines with teachers. After she heard it, she started asking around and it turns out to be so-called “stickers”. Which apparently you can make through Whatsapp. There was even a whole app group created about the stickers. There seems to be a third person who took a screenshot of my daughter yesterday during video calling with a friend. A phone call this evening with our daughter's mentor learns that under the supervision of the teachers the stickers have been removed and the parents of the three girls who appear to have been informed about this on their conscience. Phones and ipads have been taken away for the time being and they have to apologize to both first-year classes on Monday. Repetition costs them a suspension.

It has a significant impact on my youngest, she's acting tough, but I can tell from her that she's in trouble. How did they get my picture, why do they take a screenshot of me, why do they have to have me, all asking her what matters? Because she's very sociable at school and seems to be able to get along with everyone. That is why there is some misunderstanding among the teachers team and herself. Luckily she is well taken care of by her brother and the daughter of my friend whom she has known since she was 2 years old. Monday I go to school to discuss it anyway, because it may have been removed from the sender's phone, the recipients may still have it in their possession.

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