Last Friday I wrote This one blog. Now we are a few days later.

After the teacher's call last Friday, it didn't let go of me. Friday night when we walked home from my girlfriend, my youngest broke. Vibrating and with thick tears, she sought comfort in my arms. We hugged and let her know that her tears can be there. Saturday, my husband and I celebrated our birthday. In the meantime, almost all visitors had read my blog so you can't avoid talking about it. I could tell from my girl that she was struggling sometimes, but she was brave and tall. Sunday a wonderful rest day, my girl went with her girlfriend to relax at Max, the horse she helps her friend take care of. Welcome distraction for her!
But Sunday night, I saw her change, she was quietly staring at her. Her look empty and misunderstood. “I do not want to go to school mom, I do not feel like”. I asked her if she was nervous about what happened and if she thought it was scary to face those girls again. Tough as she wants to be, she replied deniously. “No, I don't care. I just don't feel like”. Luckily I know my child as if I made them myself and I know, the inner fat she is, it's hard to find it all there. It reassures her that I ride to school the next morning.

Monday morning I defy the tail of storm ciara on my bike at 08.00 in the morning. I am warmly welcomed by the director. The mentor's still in traffic jam, so I need to wait for her. After a good five minutes of waiting, she comes in and we can walk to the classroom. Because she has a duoclass with another colleague, she was not present on Friday, but she heard from her colleague last night what happened. It also shocked her greatly. My girl breaks again, and that doesn't leave the teacher indifferent. This week there is another conversation with the parents of the children concerned. And they're gonna apologize today. Our youngest is being watched extra to see how she is doing. Miss and I agree to have more contact this week. In the course of the day we receive an email to all parents, whether we want to pay attention to the social media use of our children, and want to check what they all eat up online. They needed more time today than they intended to solve 'bullying. ' I read the mail with a little surprise, the unlawful use of a photo, then putting heavy texts on it and then spreading that is something more than a “bullying”. Anyway, I'm, of course, a little biased about the whole situation. In any case, Meiske has passed the school day well and seems a little calmer in her head. Although it will take a while before it really gets out. #Pesten #Cyberpesten #socialmedia #Whatsapp