Daughter (5) puts youth care agency ladies in their place!
Earlier, I wrote all this blog about how a psychopathic parent in youth care gets away with everything, and it even started to look like a kind of collaboration over time. In addition, you'll find 2 of my blogs in which I express my sadness about what has been done to us all by father and the failing aid. My big loss and how I try to deal with it.
Today I'm taking you in another passage, at this point the 2 oldest children were still living at my house, and I even thought that youth care agency had to finally see what was going on. And the tide should finally turn in the short term. I had no idea what was actually happening, because I was confident in the Dutch aid system, even after the many mistakes that had already occurred. I continued to keep trust and hope.
A passage about the distress caused by youth care along with the father of my 2 eldest children. However, this is a passage from my long story that I still have to laugh at secretly. Not for what they were trying to do, but because of how my 5-year-old daughter reacted to this, and she did not give in to the harsh techniques of the 2 ladies of Youth Care who came to the house.
By the way, they didn't come because I had done something wrong, no one came to house visit, because it would be standard, after father abused his stepfather so badly just before. Before the eyes of my 2 oldest children, the oldest of whom was just 5 years old. I had a little feeling at this point that they tended to take my side, which was in the best interests of the children, and would at least keep father under stricter supervision with the children after his aggravated assault (which was not the first time either).
Maar goed fijn dat ik het even kwijt kan en geweldig deze site😉😉😉!!!Fijne dag verder allemaal.....Groetjes🌹
Jeugdzorg NL is tot ver buiten de landsgrenzen berucht: 1 van mijn vriendinnen (gepensioneerd maatschappelijk werkster) heeft n.a.v. waarschuwingen van een oud-collega uit NL, haar dochter & kleinkinderen bijtijds kunnen helpen hier naar toe te vluchten.
Soms lijkt het wel of ze het oordeel al klaar hebben en alles er omheen er in proberen te passen. (Tunnelvisie)
Hopelijk voor jullie zien jullie snel de kinderen weer!
En het is veelzeggend inderdaad dat dit huisbezoek niet in het dossier werd opgenomen. Onbegrijpelijk allemaal en erg pijnlijk.