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· 16 Apr 2022

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How to educate a child?

#educacin It is clear that one of the main doubts of every parent is whether they will give their child a good education. Surely at some point you have wondered, how is this education done.

An example is worth a thousand sermons:

From a very young age, children tend to imitate all our behaviors, good and bad.
We can take advantage of everyday habits such as greeting, behaving at the table, respecting the rules when driving so that they acquire correct habits and, little by little, take responsibility.
It is useless to always lecture him with the same story if his parents do not do what they ask of him.

Communication, dialogue and understanding:

The words, gestures, looks and expressions we use help us to get to know each other better and express everything we feel. That's why, even during pregnancy, you have to talk to the baby.
We must always continue with communication Talk to him a lot, without haste, tell him stories and also let him be the one to tell us about them.
You've tried asking him a question that begins with What do you think about This is how we show him that we care about his opinion and he will feel loved and heard.

Limits discipline without threatening the child:

It is necessary to teach him to separate feelings from action. The rules must be clear and coherent and accompanied by logical explanations.
You need to know what happens if you don't do what we ask. For example, we must make it clear to him that after playing he has to pick up his toys.
It is important that the child - and so do we - understand that his feelings are not the problem, but bad behavior is the problem. And before them you always have to set limits, because there are negotiable areas and others that are not negotiable. If he refuses to go to school, we have to acknowledge how annoying it is sometimes to get up early and tell him that we do it too.

Let him experience new things:

The best way for children to explore the world is to allow them to experience things themselves. And if they're wrong, we have to be there to take care of them physically and emotionally, but with limits.
Overprotection sometimes protects parents from certain fears, but not our child. If every time he falls or hits a blow, however small, we run alarmed to help him, we will be encouraging him to complain and accustom him to continuous comfort. We have to let them take risks.

Do not compare with anyone:

You have to eliminate phrases as you learn from your brother, when are you going to become as responsible as your cousin or are you as grumbling as that kid in the park.
It is not convenient to generalize and we must do without expressions like you are always hitting your sister or you never listen.
I'm sure he does a lot of things right, even though he's been acting like a real thing lately. Every child is unique, not everyone acts at the same pace and in the same way.
Phrases like you can swim just as well as your brother, try it. You'll see, they transform your discomfort into a smile and encourage you to achieve your goals.