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· 30 Nov 2021

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How to Officiate a Wedding

Many couples choose event items that include their guests, such as a wine box, a box of books, a candle for solidarity, a guest reading, etc. and many times when those guests were unprepared. Most of the time it is because the couple forgot to tell them, so be sure to introduce yourself to any participant before the event begins. For about 1/3 of the time, the mothers were told they would light candles or the family was not asked to write books for the couple's book box.

Couples often use a box of cereals or a wine box as their picture, in which family members are invited to write letters to the couple and take turns kissing.

Family members are often pressured and angry because they have not been told and have never written a letter to a couple. Your job is to manage, so tell them it's not a big deal and it always happens. The last thing the bride and groom need is family members who are depressed.

If they do not have easy access to paper, get them a few pieces and tell them to bring a blank piece of paper to put in the middle of the event and write letters of blessing, encouragement, and support later, after the wedding. This often calms the emotions quickly and gives them permission to relax.

Immigrant students are usually not prepared, either. The male ego is an exciting thing. Many boys refuse to exercise out loud and often say, "I got it, man." No doubt they stumbled upon their words and lost their place and the bomb.

So, tell them that "We want the couple's event to kick off and that takes the team's effort." It's a little annoying, but then you say something like, "Since everyone here wants their event to be the best memory, I'm sure taking a few minutes alone to train your guest to read aloud makes sense. Doesn't it?"

Then, show the guest reader where you underline the words in your event book to remind you that you need to change your voice in some way and that it helps you to maintain your position, so that you can look up the page. That usually works and the student then finds a quiet place to practice.

Before all the ceremony, be sure to ask the bride who will accompany her down the road and if she would like to ask, "Who has the honor of escorting the Bride down the aisle and introducing her to the groom?"

The old school way of saying, "Who gives this woman?" but times have changed and the bride is not a property. If he or she would like you to ask him or her officially, be sure to talk to his or her father, or anyone who accompanies him or her on the way so that the person knows he or she is going to put a microphone in his or her face, waiting for an answer.

You don’t want to surprise her and make her look stupid in front of all the guests, but when dad messes up, it’s usually funny and it’s a big snow break. The father of the bride often thanks her for the introduction and tries to prepare her for the ceremony.

Dad often asks, "What do most people say?" Tell her to feel free to say whatever she likes, but most dads say things like, "I'm her dad and it's my honor."

As managers, it is our job to prepare ourselves and help others do the same. Nervousness and preparation for others are part of the agreement!

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