I can stop complaining about racism/Please stop complaining about racism
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My message to the BLM movement and propaganda,
my thoughts on racism and my love for the Netherlands.
A white person can also be misjudged and treated wrong.
And could have less privileges than someone else, no matter what colour he or she has. If people are offensive to or superior over other races, they have issues with themselves and vice versa if they cannot deal with it. When you as a coloured person keep feeling misjudged, I think you also have issues. Do not build up hate by keep complaining about it. It can be detrimental. When you complain you subconsciously tell you're brain to feel very and create flows of unhappiness within yourself and brings negative vibes to others. In work systems there will always be self-righteous pricks who will let you know your place. The same applies for white people. Also let the past go, the history of black slavery. There were white slaves as well, so many peoples, so many ethnicities. White people of this generation should not take the blame or carry burden for that. Bringing up your issues is making it worse, in my opinion. It's just not about colour, but about values. Don't focus on victims in black society alone, you don't have to be coloured to be a victim of unfairly treatments.
I'm coloured too. By the way, the term colour is strange to me, because I think black is not a colour and white people have more colours like red and even blue while being sick, but that is just a funny insight. Anyway, I also have experienced misjudgements and prejudices in my life, like most people on this planet, regardless of your skin tone. So, for example one time I wondered I was having issues with a bouncer. And people could insult me by calling me a dirty peanut, mostly during conflicts. Just parents in law in the past could misjudge me by my skin tone and were digging deep to find out my social class before I had a moment with them. Hell, just my white skinned mother had some curious utterances, but we love each other a lot, though. Curs names based on or related with stereo type racial statements are plane stupid to me and yes, they can be hurtful, but for me there are no reasons to stay and play victim for my whole life. Call me black, brown, peanut if you will.. I do not care, as long as you're not acting hostile. And I am brown, so what.. should that be an issue to me? So call me brownie, like I will call someone a blondie... I just don't think that way by insulting people based on their looks. But honestly, my type is a black woman, which means my preference is based on skin tone, but that doesn't make me racist, because I find beauty in all races and respect all women. Don't tell my half white girlfriend? ? ? .
If someone makes racial related insults, then that's his/her issue and way of processing during and dealing with conflicts. It really cannot touch me, like I can insult someone else based on their skin... It's pointless to me and should be to him/her too. If that person wants to feel superior, let him/her. You should know better. Everybody has issues in their relationships and more likely at their jobs with colleagues. If it's a matter of superiority confrontations in work system and hierarchy, just deal with it or do something about it. I find it pointless to act rushed and use my skin colour as a way to confront such a matter. And if (racial) discrimination structurally does happen to one person, there are codes of conduct and rules of contact that will definitely support. But you should ask yourself why and how it happens and do you think twice for finding yourself in the right place and maybe move on to another place. If it's innocent intended to be humorous, then you shouldn't be devoid from humour. Then again, if it's hostile, find out where it's coming from and be willing to solve that problem. If it's ignorance, my advice is to let it go. That person will learn the hard way by him/herself. I believe I was not (and hopefully still not) an unattractive, mindless kid, so luckily naturally I had a lot of attention, carefulness and love from people, based on how I well treated others with respect of course. As a baby I was adopted from Indonesia and grew up as a child in the Netherlands.
And if so there was occurring hostility, followed by discrimination itself (not only racial) that comes from hate, envy, jealousy, ignorance and disgust.. Like I can call a woman a b*tch when she's being very mean, an annoying person a f*g or a rude old man an oldi*. It's not right, descent and it's disrespectful, but it happens. Nobody is always politically correct and has the curtesy using neutral words. In pejorative terms there can be name calling just for fun with negative connotation, because there is already a band between people. So there will be racial statements and name calling like black m*fo, stupid n*gro or n*gger... In my case a stupid peanut. For most coloured persons, a term like negro is often negative loaded. Maybe not so common for some coloured people... But I think it is the same as someone can use the term retard in the heat of the moment during conflicts, which isn't politically correct for a handicap person of course. In the Netherlands are black people threatened and offended with the worst racial related insults, because of the Black Pete discussion. But mostly about racial discrimination or vilification.
I grew up in the Netherlands and see ruined statues of history and traditions that's just isn't necessary. As a child I loved the tradition and I will love to give my kids the same.
Of course I disapprove racism like a black person can't get for instance a ICT job, just because he's black and have no ICT knowledge.. The employer literally used those words. He should be taught a lesson. But it is his issue, let him open his eyes and learning by himself. Maybe he will meet a nice black woman who will fall in love with. And tells her the story and gets a tough lesson from her, who knows... Or a locked out black person by hooligans in a train. Or a black man gets dirty looks walking alone in his own nice neighbourhood. In the village called Heesch where I grew up, there was this young black girl who was beaten up by a group white teenagers, pure by racial discrimination though, it's awful. And I do not ignore the fact that it could happen just around the corner. But then again, it could also happen to a white person. A coloured police officer can be corrupt and even that vicious with unnecessary violence to criminals or innocent citizens, again regardless of the victim's skin tone. Or a white person is life struggling in black communities... BLM is talking about experiences on institutional racism and insulting issues like being described as black as night, as a child in hide and seek games. And like people feeling like they must work harder than white people to achieve something. So, what, work hard and achieve something.
