“One kid among all those girls, that's pathetic too!', I get to hear.
Well...., pathetic? I don't want to call it pathetic..

Oink does not fall under his sisters. For example, pink is his favorite color, he prefers to wear Anieka's pink lacquer shoes, he also likes to play with dolls and he screams equally high and loud.

The girls wanted something different with the bedroom, but there were no possibilities. There are two bunk beds and in between there is a separate bed.
The problem solved itself: Arinde was a bit sad in the middle of the night. She was not thirsty, there was no talk of a nightmare, pain could also be stripped off the list - Arinde was just out of her doing.
The crying continued even after a lot of cuddle and yet a sip of water. Brother and sisters became restless, they wanted to sleep, but they couldn't do that anymore.
We just picked up Arinde's crib and put it in with us. The brother and sisters could go back to sleep - Arinde finally became calm in her new environment and slept pretty quickly.

The next morning there was unrest: the sisters wanted to make use of the space created in the night in the bedroom by placing a chair and a table. But yes, if Arinde came back to the bedroom again, the whole party couldn't go on.

We went into deliberations: maybe Knor didn't like to leave his sisters and sleep with us?
Fire in three pairs of eyes: 'Neeeeehhhh!!! Oink belongs to us! He's one of us.! Arinde, too, but she's still little, she better sleep with you, so our Oink can stay with us!'
Arinde was a bit obscessed with. Mother Alanis was the first to notice.
“Arinde, you are really sweet and we love you very much. But wouldn't you like to stay with Mom and Dad. Then Dad can lie down on bed in the evening, when you go to sleep. Wouldn't you like that?'
Arinde her eyes lit.
“Then may I bring all my hugs? And all my toy? Then I want it.!'

Arinde's crib was put in a corner where she will have the space. The chair and the table that stood in the corner, got a new place in the bedroom near the big four.
It was a grassroots move first class!
A basket was arranged where all four of them put a toy in: anyone can grab that toy to play with, including Arinde! Every week will get the basket and other content - just, to keep it fun.

Arinde is very pleased at her new spot. She has more room to put all her frutseltjes, even the car-road play rug can be next to her bed.

During the day, the bedroom is now a nice space to 'chill' and have a chat. The nights are great, now that the four of them lie down.

One guy among all those girls, that's not pathetic..
Just not pathetic, because he's just one of them.