Let's talk about children in high demand, what are they like and how should we treat them?
#kids Currently, the term “high demand” is increasingly used when talking about the upbringing of children, in fact, parents who claim that their children are within this group of children. When it comes to talking about high demand for children, there are opinions of all kinds. From those who think that there are no such children to those who feel totally identified with such descriptions, and in a way comforted and understood. Others, on the other hand, do not even know what he means.
We found some common characteristics to define so-called “children in high demand”:
1. They need to be close to the adult constantly. They need physical contact, they demand to be in the arms, sleep with the adult.
2. They are restless and are almost always active. A mind always attentive and restless, as if continually asking for stimuli.
3. It has a lot of energy, sometimes they exhaust the adult. They are energetic in everything they do, when they cry, when they eat, when they laugh, when they protest.
4. They are curious and intense.
5. Demanding. They do not accept denial for an answer.
7. They are unpredictable, the tricks that work some days do not work on others.
8. They are hypersensitive to noise and to the stimulation of the environment
9. They lack self-control and emotional self-regulation
10 It is difficult for them to face new challenges because they are used to giving in to their demands
11 They hardly agree to be without the continuous presence of their primary caregiver, usually the mother.
12. Dissatisfied. They never seem to be happy with what they have or get,
They don't know how to calm down for themselves. It's as if they don't get over relaxing in any way and always need parental help for it.
Tips for parents in raising their children in high demand:
1. Primarily they tend to get frustrated easily, it is important to teach them to tolerate frustration.
2. Maintaining our own energy can also help us in your education.
3. Moments of rest and disconnection delegating our functions, this will make us return with charged batteries.
4. Use positive discipline guidelines and accompany them on their emotional level.
5 Responding calmly, firmly, with love and understanding is often more effective than highlighting negative behaviors.
6. Establish consistent and consensual but coherent limits. Beware what we say to our children and what we do later, we cannot give in to everything that demands us, because it will get out of adjustment and lead to insecurity and anguish.
7 Avoid disqualifications or pejorative comments about your way of being, beware of criticism. Your self-esteem and emotional self-control can be damaged.
Do you consider your child to be in high demand? Don't worry, there is a large percentage of it and you just have to learn to handle it calmly
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andreinalugopolanco
2 years ago
Very true, I have 4 girls and although not all of them are demanding, it is a little stressful not knowing what to do in certain cases
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bloguerouniversal
2 years ago
It must be a difficult task for every parent of these children, although I think it should not be taken as something bad, but as an extra dose of energy that these little ones have come with haha
torres.anthonny
2 years ago
Well, you well know about it, our daughter has more than 5 characteristics, she is super demanding and sometimes it gets a little complicated
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