MyLife: Altijd kamperen

Education loss and mourning youths

#workshop   #onlineworkshop   #lezing   #onlinelezing #education   #education In my practice From Caterpillar to Butterfly I offer lectures, workshops and online courses to parents, educators and professionals who want to know more about the process of loss and mourning among young people. From an early age I learned what loss was. However, at that time there was little or no talk about the feelings and emotions that were bothering me as a result of this loss experience. Again and again these were pushed aside again, they were not allowed to be there. You can imagine that this has a significant impact on how you develop yourself? Especially if you endure a loss experience at an early age. It is therefore my goal with my practice to break the taboo talking about loss with young people. loss is also part of life!  - In my lectures, workshops and online courses I offer attention to what is actually loss. I also pay attention to the development in case of loss, how does a youthful normally develop and how if it is going through a loss? Many more aspects are covered. Feel free to take a look at my website or leave a message if you have any questions about loss and mourning among young people. Maybe I'll be able to dedicate a blog.

calling

How simple and fast can you be when you make a call, they say “a caller is faster”. They are also quite right, calling is also faster. Only I do not dare to call, there is a fear in me, you can ask me why I do not dare to do this, I can not answer this. Why I don't dare.... I don't know.. I have fear of failure, I just can't imagine that not daring to call belongs to fear of failure, you can't fail calling. At work, I often have to call the office or call the children's parents. If I have to call, I try to postpone this as long as possible or send an email. But an email stays with me for half an hour before I send it, later there are errors in the text or I have written names wrong. If I have to communicate with others then there comes some kind of error in my head, I start stuttering and spontaneously forgot what I wanted to say, the so-called “Black Out”. Until 5 years ago, if you called me, I would have pushed you away and then sent a message 5 minutes later.? You called?”. Nowadays with my work, I don't get out of bells anymore and I'll have to. When I have to call I write on a piece of paper in keywords what to say, if I don't do this I'm guaranteed to forget. Before I call, I walk somewhere where no one can hear me (imagine I say something wrong in front of my colleagues). When I'm alone, I take a few deep breaths and dial the number. Call.... Something so simple, which can be so hard.