Anneke Visser

@annekevisser · 24 Sep 2023

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No matter how the child was born, the child can always be rebuilt later

Yesterday afternoon, I was just zapping and saw a short part of the reality series by Roy Donders and his girlfriend. They had a daughter in March and in the short part I saw, the proud parents were seeing how much their child looks like which of the two. Mother's chin, father's eyes, mother's mouth etc. It is also possible that they were attributed the mentioned body parts to the other person, don't hold me to them, because I haven't listened that well either. For me, it went more into one ear and out the other ear even faster. What stuck was that at some point I knew Roy, something along the lines that it doesn't matter how the child was born, if there's anything ugly about it, it can always be grown. We're living in 2023 where that's quite normal, you hear them.
Just to be clear, I have nothing against plastic surgery if, for example, fuller cheeks, a nose that is less noticeable, puffy lips, etc. you have to know all that for yourself, provided you are over eighteen springs. Under eighteen springs, I personally think that people should not do that, only with exceptions, such as if the child was born with a cleft lip, for example, I can imagine it, but just because, for example, the lips are too thin, the breasts are too small, so just for the so-called perfect picture, you should not have such operations carried out under eighteen springs. I also say that, because people only realize around fifty or sixty that they looked good in your younger version, even if you don't see that when you're young. I now speak from experience and I have never been renovated, because I was and am satisfied with my appearance. I'm happy with every scar I have and every wrinkle I have. It's my life story recorded on my body.
Back to the daughter of Roy Donders and his girlfriend. Call me old-fashioned, but I hate that he's already talking about if there's something not good enough about his daughter, he wants to have it renovated. Their child has just been born and we'll start talking about that? Fortunately, his girlfriend thinks differently and states that their daughter is not being renovated. I hope for her and their daughter that she will keep her leg stiff, should Roy see something about his daughter that he doesn't like. When their daughter is eighteen years old, she can always decide what to do or not to do, that is her conscious choice, hopefully, if she is not indoctrinated by the so-called ideal of beauty of the moment. It would be a shame that it would be a girl, later a woman, who has little or no expression in her face, that she is mainly plastic instead of pure nature. Hopefully, Roy will also keep his thoughts to himself and ensure that his daughter becomes a secure, confident woman without fear of not living up to the beauty image. It's bad enough that the media says that, let alone if your parents participate and say that something isn't good about your body. You will then have a very insecure child who never feels good enough and who knows which way that will go. I really hope that it doesn't come to that and that their daughter will be a happy and secure child and later a woman who later does what she thinks is right.
After Roy's statement and the fact that I just heard that his girlfriend does not want their child to be cultivated, I quickly got zapped. I was done with him after Roy's comment, not that I liked him before, but that's my personal taste.

The photo comes from pixabay.

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