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@qa_animatables · 03 Aug 2021
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How do you treat people you don’t like?

Some of us have certain people in our lives that we just can't seem to like, no matter what we do. Do you treat them with respect, do you just ignore them or do you show and tell them what you think about them every time you hang out with them?

Now you're gonna ask me: if you don't like someone, why would you even keep dealing with them? Well think about it this way. Sometimes you can't get rid of the person. If they're family, colleagues or literally the cashier that you have to see every day at the supermarket.

What do I do when I have to interact with someone I don't like? I just hold it in and rant about them when I'm at home. I ask myself how someone can be so foul and horrible. But then I remind myself that they were raised differently and have different thoughts than I do. Maybe they're not wired wrong, maybe I am? Neh, seriously?

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How do you handle the people you don't like?


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Rudi
For me, I'm avoiding as many people as possible.. But indeed, some people may not always be able to get out of your way. But then I interact with it as little as possible..
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PeacefulPotato
I litterally distance myself from them. No one is inherently a bad person but sometimes personalities don't go well together. It's then pointless to put energy in it so I just stop. I'll still be kind and respectful but mentally and fysically I'll remove myself.
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Christiaanskunst
I know it too, but when I went to look at that person differently, things went better.. What's the reason you think like that?? What feeling does that person give you?? That person may also have reasons to do that.. Out of uncertainty, ignorance or personal... Show more
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Néstor David
I just always do the opposite of what they think I'll do. instead of being vindictive or indifferent to “that person” I am the opposite.
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enigma
I'm actually easy to deal with, I can handle people I don't like. If I can't ignore them for a while, if it's not possible because you have to work with them, for example, I just do that.. Not a big problem.
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Madeleine
In life, people get in and out of your train, that's how it goes. Sometimes it's better to have someone from your life for your own good.. I used to be an all-man friend.. Wherever I went, many friends and many acquaintances. It was always hi this, hi that.... Show more
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ravena69
I like this question. It has been a challenge for me. The problem is not the other person, the problem is how you feel and how your body responds, surely it cannot be beneficial, I cannot allow someone to steal my peace. As I am the one who has to "cure in... Show more
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QA Animatables
@ravena69 What a beautiful answer! That's a great way of treating people
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Deleted
I tend to ignore them, I am not great at keeping in contact with actual friends so it's no wonder I can easily ignore the ones that I don't like.If I have to see them everyday I just don't interact with them and it may sound very anti social but I am not ashamed of it.
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Juli.carmen
For me we are all the same because we are all children of God. Sometimes we differ with certain people regarding opinions but only that differences in views
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jose07610
I try to about wearing it or I just don't take it into account
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Miguelcmacho
I just don't treat them, but I don't have to treat them that easy
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Zulaine Díaz
I really avoid dealing with people I don't like that's my way of being and thinking like that avoided me any kind of problems
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GMO
Respect and treat as we want us to be treated is important to me, there will always be that kind of person and which we can hardly avoid, when that is the case I am punctual, diplomatic but always respectful, that worked for me always.
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leninJM
for each person it's different I usually do not deal with people I don't like, but when it's something obligatory I try to be as diplomatic as possible and when all the limits have been exceeded, I do not like you, I will know
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Pao Leal
I just don't treat her, total indifference is my shield
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rockstar
hahaha your post is very interesting but from my perspective how compulsory it is mandatory to treat someone I don't like or I don't like it I treat what does not help me in my eyes
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👑 Maru 👑
For my part, I try to keep the distance as possible and when do I have to treat that person I do it with the greatest possible respect
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Crea Twinkles
I don't hate people quickly (at most how they can do sometimes). If I didn't have a click with a colleague, for example, I stayed purely business.
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Mariana de Nava
I do not accept that it is the kind of people who steal my peace and tranquility, yet I am always ready to support and listen to them, in the end it is that person who is wrong in their behavior and only needs compression.
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MAGALY
It is very difficult for a person to not like me, even if he has done something to me, I try to understand that we are all different and accept them as they are
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Carolina.kat
I treat them well because you cut it does not take away they are worth it there then I greet them the same and if I don't like it bad I try not to ablar much because I'm not ipocrite and it goes away. I'd say I don't like me
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Stem van Gedachten
For me, these are grace trainers... They help you on the path to become a more beautiful person. ;)
I'm trying to be grateful for people like this.. These people allow me to grow...
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Diana Lima
What an interesting post! Thought provoking for sure. Well, many of us deal with people in different ways. I try to be at my best even in the presence of horrid people. My actions try to be at their best, but my face betrays me every single time no matter how I try. 😄
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Ingeborgenzwerm
I think that's a good question.. I don't think you need to be friendly with everyone..
Sometimes business and distance is more than enough.. But please never doubt yourself..
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Nuno Neves
I usually treat people so respectfully they find it hard to keep up with me and eventually go away by themselves. They get tired from the effort required.
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tiko3msc
I really try not to deal with these kinds of people I don't like, and then let them know that I don't like sharing with them
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ellesvandenbroek
Over the years, I've been easier to deal with that.. I used to be really bothered by people I didn't like that much.. I can leave more everyone in their value now.. And I always think: The allergy I have to have a trait in another is often a learning point for myself!”
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Eza Chavez
I just don't treat them, they're not worth my time so they're not part of my environment, I avoid them at all costs
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Gollo
People who don't like me what I do is avoid them because they are not to my liking so I can avoid any problems.
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AnaCa 🌻
We certainly can't get rid of people, I generally if they are people at work I only talk to them about what is strictly necessary. And if they are family members, I limit them to stay out of my personal affairs.
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Sarah Ben Avraham
With people I don't like I try to avoid them as much as possible so as not to fall into discussion especially if I have to treat it often
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keepfaithbaby
I try not to interact with people I dislike. I hate wasting energy and ruining my entire day. I would suggest to avoid the person as much as possible.
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Rosita&Charlene-Blogs-Creaties
I'm someone who says it right to their face when I don't like them and then I leave them left.. I'm really hard at that.
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fanny
It's a good question, because in reality I tend to treat it the same as others because we deserve respect for each other.
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Niyorlis
It's all a matter of acceptance, I have clients who are unbearable, and I have to attend to them even though I don't have patience as they are my customers, and they bring a benefit to my business. that's the bright side.
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Fabiola Diaz
you have to be very political hehe, to treat someone you don't like me usually preferred not to treat them because I don't like hypocrisy
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Diego G.O.
When I deal with someone I don't like, I'm just the ones who talk to you directly and sharply, also avoiding talking to that person as much as I can
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Ernesto Amador
Good afternoon, greetings. You're always surprised with your good questions. Even if I don't like a person, I always treat them with respect and courtesy.
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Gustavo Perez
I'm not a person who holds a grudge, so simply if someone doesn't like what I do is get away from that person over time, I try to get us to interact very little. That is, everyone on their side.
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Zeljka
Polite, but cold. There is always a reason why I do not like them- either I had a bit rough history with them, some disagreement or similar. And with that, I put up my shield- emotional, physical and other distance. As a result you get polite but cold treatment.
I do not hate anybody, I just care about my personal well being. :)
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abreusoleidy
I particularly treat these types of people well but keep the distance with them, because we must treat others as we want to be treated
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Maria
people I don't like, in the first instance I try to understand why, then anything can happen, I have very good friends who at first did not like
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fuenmayorr568
When it happens to me I treat that person about it, and if I can't stop treating that person more to avoid conflicts and discussions
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rorocando
It is not easy always polite but very sharp and direct I try to get fast and that if you are looking for information or need something is as fast as possible so you don't have to have to have it around. 😋😊
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Niria
I consider myself a very quiet person I don't like being rude to anyone but there are times that people want to be ahead of you and at that time I make bad gestures to make them understand
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