What is the most uncomfortable question that you have been asked?
#qa There are people who ask questions, regardless of how confident you are with them. For this reason, you qualify her as indiscreet. Of course, sometimes your friends and coworkers ask you questions, to which you do not respond immediately, you do not even know how to answer because they catch you off guard, because you did not expect it. Why does this happen? It is because we give so much power and importance to the words we hear. We feel our privacy and intimacy invaded, which generates great discomfort, especially due to the particular concept you have about the subject of which they are asking you. Perhaps it is easy for the other person to ask certain questions, but each of us is the one who gives the meaning and importance. Now, you are definitely in the right to answer or not. If you don't want to be silent, you can simply answer him by saying that "the question is interesting, but I don't want to answer you, at least for now, no." With this you fix your position before the other and he will know what to expect before asking you another uncomfortable question. However, I think that these types of situations that cause you discomfort, can be used to get to know yourself. If inside you feel anger, sadness, shame that you did not know you were keeping. My anecdote is the following: One day my students asked me: Professor, and you cheated on exams? It was really uncomfortable for me, because you don't want to reveal such actions to your students. I simply replied, And what do you want me to answer? That was my reaction. They often ask these kinds of questions to justify their actions. Now, tell me what has been an uncomfortable question for you?
¿Cuál es la pregunta más incómoda que te han hecho?
Hay personas que hacen preguntas, indiferentemente del grado de confianza que tengas con ellos. Por esta razón, tú la calificas de “indiscretas”. Por supuesto, a veces tus amigos y compañeros de trabajo te hacen preguntas, a las cuales no respondes inmediatamente, o no sabes cómo responder porque te toman desprevenido, pues no la esperabas. ¿Por qué sucede esto? Es porque le damos mucho poder e importancia a las palabras que escuchamos. Sentimos invadida nuestra intimidad, lo cual genera gran incomodidad, sobre todo por el concepto particular que tienes acerca del tema del cual te están preguntando. Quizá para la otra persona resulta sencillo hacer ciertas preguntas, pero, cada uno de nosotros es quien le da el significado y la importancia. Ahora, tú estás, definitivamente en el derecho a responder o no. Si no quieres guardar silencio, simplemente le puedes contestar diciéndole, sin perder la cortesía, que “la pregunta es interesante, pero no quiero responderte, al menos por ahora, no”. Con esto fijas posición ante el otro y ya sabrá a qué atenerse antes de hacerte otra pregunta incómoda. No obstante, pienso que este tipo de situaciones que generan incomodidad, pueden aprovecharse para conocerse a sí mismo. Si en el interior se siente enfado, tristeza, vergüenza y lo desconocíamos. Mi anécdota es la siguiente: Un día mis estudiantes me preguntaron: ¿Profesora, y usted hacía trampa en los exámenes? Para mí realmente fue incómoda, porque tú no quieres revelar ese tipo de acciones a tus estudiantes. Simplemente le respondí ¿Y qué quieres que te responda? Esa fue mi reacción. Ellos suelen hacer este tipo de preguntas para justificar sus acciones. ¿Ahora, cuéntame cual ha sido una pregunta incómoda para ti?
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