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Someone Once Told Me: "I Can Live Without You, But Would I Want to Live Without You? That's a Different Question" | Babita de Boer
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Someone Once Told Me: "I Can Live Without You, But Would I Want to Live Without You? That's a Different Question"

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enigma
enigma
2 years ago
It is certainly a compliment if someone decides that they don't WANT to go on living without you, but they can. In principle, we can all do it, but we often just want to stay with the other person.
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Sharon
Sharon
2 years ago
It's a beautiful way to tell you that they love you but that at the same time they're independent, since we really don't need anyone to live life, everything happens, both good and bad. Once they told me “I prefer your friendship to nothing” was the nicest thing I ever heard.
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ellesvandenbroek
ellesvandenbroek
2 years ago
Beautifully written again! It is precisely what affects and perhaps hurts you that has often reached a point that you can/may/want/should work on.
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Dewaputra
Dewaputra
2 years ago
When you make such a statement “a quarter of a turn”, it suddenly takes on a completely different meaning, so that you can indeed come to another, valuable insight. Thank you for sharing this with us.
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Madeleine
Madeleine
2 years ago
pretty! People I care about and love are in my heart. Even though we can live alone without each other, I love them and carry them in my heart every day and I think about them wherever they are. I give them everything and hope they are doing well and will... Show morepretty! People I care about and love are in my heart. Even though we can live alone without each other, I love them and carry them in my heart every day and I think about them wherever they are. I give them everything and hope they are doing well and will keep thinking about and loving them. I also know that sometimes someone can't love you as much as you'd like. That hurts, but at the same time, it's fair if someone says that to you. That doesn't have to mean that they don't care about you or don't love you. Sometimes they love you so much that it's better to let go out of love. That happened to me years ago. That was difficult, but I understand their choice.
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De verhalenheks
De verhalenheks
2 years ago
Je zou inderdaad zonder je geliefde kunnen leven. Je gaat dan door want je hart stopt niet zomaar met kloppen en heel veel dingen gaan automatisch ... maar zonder die ene persoon is het vaak meer overleven ipv van LEVEN.
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Kinderworkshops Petra
Kinderworkshops Petra
2 years ago
What she says is absolutely true. Theoretically, anyone can live without a loved one. Sometimes you have to. But in practice, the bottom line is that it turns out to be incredibly difficult to live without your loved one. One person does and the other person can't figure it out. Beautifully described.
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fanny
fanny
2 years ago
These words are a little hard to hear from a close person, yes, but we have learned with everything that has happened, it is good to value every moment of our life, and well, I also heard this, which was something very hurtful, but as you say, to realize reality to make life easier.
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mar52
mar52
2 years ago
Your way of communicating is so emotionally charged, people aren't going to listen to that, that's a shame. What I have to say has value, but when my emotions resonate too much, people take my message harder. That has had value.
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LCMA
LCMA
2 years ago
I loved your post, it's very human and it teaches a lot about love. Right now I don't remember a phrase that would mark me, but I'm sure there is one.
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Maria
Maria
2 years ago
It's a hackneyed phrase, but it's true we hold on to people and even though we don't need anyone we create bonds that bind us tightly
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Leo 1
Leo 1
2 years ago
Wise words put in a realistic context. Wanting and being able to do so are thoughts that people often conflict with each other. Especially with regard to love and relationship.
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Rudy Siedlecki 🌳
Rudy Siedlecki 🌳
2 years ago
That reminds me of another sentence I read recently: “Love always ends tragically: either we get separated or the other person dies.”
And yet, it's always worth getting started.
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Ingrid
Ingrid
2 years ago
sure! Before someone knew their loved one, they were also alive. (Okay, except for parents and possibly existing siblings).)
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Madeleine
Madeleine
2 years ago
+100 YP
Informative
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