Ianita_1345

· 19 Sep 2021

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The loneliness

#loneliness
The one you see in the photo is my dog is called Marine Star, I looked at her and asked me what will be going through that little head that many believe does not analyze, believe me she does a few things hahahaha that make me understand that we who do not analyze are humans; but hey, at this moment and with this pose I wanted to imagine her thinking about “loneliness”, a broad, sensitive issue and of such importance to public health, perceived differently, according to each individual who experiences it, how many people on earth are there an equal number of different ways of feeling the effects of it.
Many of us have had that feeling of emptiness, of not having achieved or having nothing, that does not despise but it turns on the alarms of happiness, a consequence of which we were taught what to do and how to do it, according to “social” or “family” parameters, that in the development of personality are separated from our ideologies or character, because they resulted being imposed values and beliefs, generating an existential problem in which you feel alone among so many people.
On the other hand, when we have moved away momentarily or definitively from those with whom we are used to live with, we feel that feeling of transient loneliness, often suffered and dramatic, but that over time we can overcome in the awareness that we are individual beings, able to share goals without depending on of others to achieve the goals.
Being alone should not always be considered a negative situation, on many occasions for me it is a feeling of enjoyment, because I feel it allows me to give myself time to analyze what I want and what I do to achieve it, visualize mistakes and seek strategies to correct them and learn. It's that walk you need to get away from controversies and embrace you and congratulate you on existing and persist.
Let us work to reinforce in our consciousness and that of our loved ones, that feeling alone is normal, is valid in many circumstances in life, it is necessary to recognize when we must look for specialized tools to solve it, to support ourselves in professionals, family or activities, because that chronic loneliness (It takes over of the individual and alters his daily life) becomes very destructive, wears out the soul, obscures thoughts and sometimes passes the limit towards depression (pathology=enfermedad) que requiere la atención de expertos en salud.

As long as we are noble people on earth, observe our neighbor with healthy interest, give kindness and humanity to everyone we meet along the way, we will be able to make a difference in someone's life. Get up every morning ready to show everyone that you are not alone, simply with your smile, with the greeting, with a small favor, and may God bless you.