- Party? #Bruiloft - What? Invitations? Yes, when you're throwing a party, it's useful if you invite people too. Never knew this was going to be such a “heavy task “concerning our wedding. What people do you want here? We certainly want to have our loved ones present at our wedding, but we also want to have a nice party. So who are you going to invite next to your beloved loved ones? We both work and we both work in a (large) team. Are you going to go #collega and if so, which colleagues are you going to invite? You're not gonna kick anyone in the sore leg? Don't you give anyone the feeling of being shut out? All these questions that have been making overtime through my head in the last month. We are both well aware that it is our party and that we can choose for ourselves, but at the same time we are both people who think about these issues and can deal with them. My partner has already said that he does not invite colleagues at all just because he does not want to pass anyone. I myself made the choice to invite a number of colleagues, but yes... where do you draw the line? So hard! Many well-meant tips I certainly brought along during my choice. Of course, it is and will remain our party and we simply cannot invite everyone. The tip I've been thinking a lot about is to see who I'd like to party with and not look at what happens when someone isn't invited. What has helped me the last few days is telling myself that we too deserve a nice party and that we are worth it. Secretly, I think my “stress “feelings can get away from “old sea. “ In the past I was passed very often during (children's) parties. This repeated itself at a later age for housewarming parties and you name it. Maybe I get a sensitive chord that tells me that I can't have fun myself. A little voice that says I can't shut anyone out. By being aware of this and by standing still, the restless feeling also subsides a little more. In the end, I managed to make a decision and invited a number of colleagues to our wedding. Colleagues I am sure I want to have with them and not because I felt I wanted to invite them. Now the following #dilemma - Yes. A while ago, I had asked a colleague who is also married, how she did it with the invitations. I would like to invite my colleagues, but without a partner. This is about the colleagues and not the supporters. My colleague advised me to just hand out the card on the man and write down only the name of the colleague in question. That's how she would have done it. Good tip! Now I have already received the signals from one colleague that it is not clear that it is only about the colleague himself and not his whole family. Aaaarg. Frustrating! Never knew that people #uitnodigen for a #feestje So #stressvol can be!

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