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What if it can be 'real' differently
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My life wasn't always about roses, but that won't sound unknown to most of us here. What is nothing for one is a lot for the other and what is very much for the other is nothing for the other.
I decided to start working on myself. My thinking, my doing and doing could really be different, the question I asked myself was “How am I going to handle this”.
For some time I followed Janne Schuijn on Instagram, a young fluent girl of my age. The mindset queen, at least that's how I saw her. Positive but certainly a picture which was not entirely fair, because yes it all went by itself with her.
I had to adjust this judgment when I had read her book “What if it could be otherwise”.
Judging something that every person does, and which is really very human, but what if you were to impose on yourself a task to deal more consciously with your thoughts and actions.
The more I read in Janne's book, the more I found myself. I started doing things that I really only supported 100%, I even tried to make people aware of what gave them comments (often behind someone else's back) as an image of themselves to the other.
You know, the thoughts you hear in your head bubbling when you're talking to someone.
- Gosh, who always judges
-Pff who also has everywhere an opinion about
Yet I decided to stay with myself and always think 3 times before I say anything, and of course I live and am also human so I sometimes came out of something that I regret later, but coming back to the fact that you could have done it differently is the power of your mindset.
Everyone makes mistakes, but what are really mistakes? I think of it more as lessons, my grandfather used to say “Girl you learn all your life” and the thing is, if you want to learn, you learn your whole life.
Now I wonder if there are really people here who are working on themselves? Do you consciously deal with your thoughts, your appearance or your actions in everyday life?
Love
DVDV blog #mindset #lessen #leren #JanneSchuijn #hetkananders #Watalshetookanderskan #oordelen #foryou #investeren #selflove #selfcare #mooierleven #anders
I decided to start working on myself. My thinking, my doing and doing could really be different, the question I asked myself was “How am I going to handle this”.
For some time I followed Janne Schuijn on Instagram, a young fluent girl of my age. The mindset queen, at least that's how I saw her. Positive but certainly a picture which was not entirely fair, because yes it all went by itself with her.
I had to adjust this judgment when I had read her book “What if it could be otherwise”.
Judging something that every person does, and which is really very human, but what if you were to impose on yourself a task to deal more consciously with your thoughts and actions.
The more I read in Janne's book, the more I found myself. I started doing things that I really only supported 100%, I even tried to make people aware of what gave them comments (often behind someone else's back) as an image of themselves to the other.
You know, the thoughts you hear in your head bubbling when you're talking to someone.
- Gosh, who always judges
-Pff who also has everywhere an opinion about
Yet I decided to stay with myself and always think 3 times before I say anything, and of course I live and am also human so I sometimes came out of something that I regret later, but coming back to the fact that you could have done it differently is the power of your mindset.
Everyone makes mistakes, but what are really mistakes? I think of it more as lessons, my grandfather used to say “Girl you learn all your life” and the thing is, if you want to learn, you learn your whole life.
Now I wonder if there are really people here who are working on themselves? Do you consciously deal with your thoughts, your appearance or your actions in everyday life?
Love
DVDV blog #mindset #lessen #leren #JanneSchuijn #hetkananders #Watalshetookanderskan #oordelen #foryou #investeren #selflove #selfcare #mooierleven #anders
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