What's the difference between BDSM and abuse
BDSM, an acronym for 'bondage, discipline/ dominance, submission and sadomasochism' is often misunderstood by the general public. One of the most common misconceptions is that BDSM is dangerous, reckless, and even offensive. However, if BDSM is properly applied, it is very different from abuse by intimate partners.
Consent is the cornerstone of all BDSM activities and it is one of the most important factors that distinguish it from abuse. Simply put, don't abuse it.

What is BDSM
For decades, BDSM practitioners have claimed that kinky is safe and satisfying and can have a positive impact on both partners' sexual desires and well-being. In recent years, science has confirmed these claims. Recent studies have revealed the many health benefits of BDSM. Researchers have found that those engaged in BDSM activities have better mental health, more satisfaction in their relationships, and less stress than their vanilla sex counterparts.
Those who were not familiar with BDSM were surprised by a new study, which showed that those involved in BDSM are more consensual when it comes to sexual acts and are less likely to adapt to behavior associated with rape culture. BDSM practitioners showed significantly lower levels of benevolent sexism, acceptance of rape myths, and victim guilt. In other words, they respect their partner's boundaries and less quickly pass the boundaries of personal safety.