Stem van Gedachten

@stemvangedachten · 10 Aug 2024

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When the truth comes, burdens are removed

The burden of a lie.

“If you've heard it, you would never expect this”
You speak with a certain disappointment about someone else and it seems like you definitely don't 'want' to soften the facts.

Like you want to reveal something, but with a very negative sound.
Of course, it can't always be suppressed, but
one way I'd rather thank.

However, your speaking does bring me to the situation you are referring to.
You keep looking fondly for how this event feels to me.

Without really talking about the 'mistake' made, I'll admit that I looked at it differently.

Look, living with a lie really isn't healthy, and after that so-called revelation, both parties are often injured.

That's definitely not fun, unpleasant consequences are often the result.
That is, of course, exactly why people talk about the truth late.

But a wound can heal and a lie can't.
Living with a lie causes fear, shame, anxiety
and sometimes even sadness.

It can gnaw at your joy, your health, your growth.
That is exactly why I prefer not to interfere with lies.

If a lie comes to light and the truth is ultimately praised by all parties, the wounds that may have arisen may heal permanently.

Then there will be room for rest, for love and for construction.
So that's why I disagree with you.

I think we should also just be happy when a sin is revealed.
It's just important that the truth is explained.

Do you know:
“When the truth comes, burdens are removed”.