Why Do I Never Compare Myself With Others? | Gehna Batra

Why Do I Never Compare Myself With Others?

I don't get the reason why everyone compares themselves with others. Everyone is different and so are their problems and goals. There is no point in comparison if your goals are different from everyone else.

When I was a kid I used to compare my life with other kids. I used to feel bad that they are having so many toys, their parents love them, they are getting everything effortlessly, and more.


But with time I figured out that there is no point in comparing, they have different kinds of problems. Everyone seems to be happy when you don't know them personally but when you start knowing more about them you'll realize they have different kinds of problems.

Sometimes, you'll find out that they are having a lot more problems than you. So stop comparing yourself and your life with every random person you meet. When we compare ourselves with others, we start doubting ourselves.

If you don't trust yourself that you can achieve something big in your life then you can never achieve it. You need to believe in yourself that you are good and strong.

This world is a very cruel place where no one cares about anyone. Moreover, you can't make everyone happy so stop trying to please everyone.


Don't care about what people are saying and keep moving forward. I consider life as a game, we either win or lose. If you want to win this game of life you need to focus on improving yourself and not caring what others are doing.

You need to develop your skills and set short-term and long-term goals. Sometimes, people don't set short-term goals and feel exhausted. They feel this because they think that they are working hard but not achieving anything.

Do you know who the winner is? A winner is a loser who tried one more time so keep trying. No matter how many times you fail you need to keep trying and achieve your goals.

Believe me, if you don't trust yourself then you can never achieve anything in your life. Stop doubting your capabilities and comparing yourself with others.

Life is not easy, it is never smooth so you should be strong. There is no place for a weak person in this world. People try to take advantage of weak people and exploit them.


You don't have to be one of them, fight for yourself. Never let anyone disrespect you or hurt you in any way.

There is only life, you live only once so what are you waiting for? Live your life in the best way by achieving all your goals. Nothing is impossible, you just need to believe in yourself.

No one can stop you from getting what you deserve if you trust yourself. Don't depend on others for anything, make all your decisions yourself.

You should be the one controlling your life, no one else should have the right to control you. There will be many situations in your life when you'll feel helpless and demotivated.

People will try to pull you down but you need to rise with a smile on your face and prove to them that you are stronger than they think.

Don't be afraid of failing, we all fail at one or the other point of our lives, we all are rejected at some point but you don't have to stop.

I did the same thing and I'm achieving everything which I ever wanted. No matter how young or old you are, just trust yourself and you can achieve anything in your life.

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