INTRODUCTION

Most of the time at least in my life, from my childhood, I saw failure as an enemy, I just hated the thought of failing or couldn't even stand that emotion until I myself understood in life that failing plays a huge role in life, a very huge role, and realizing this was not definitely easy, it took me multiple failing attempts and thereby, I lost many things that I sacrificed my whole life, my mental health and physical health for! So, this is a post on how the journey was, and my take on my understanding of this topic!

WHY FAILING IN LIFE IS A SIGN OF SUCCESS?
Most of the winners are greedy for success and that's how they reach what they crave too! Sometimes they have an idea of what to do, sometimes it's only greed, sometimes it's out of our hands, sometimes it's within our reach but we're fogged due to some reason or the other, there can be various other reasons, and by crossing all these we taste the fruit of success. Success means different for different people, for some, it is peace, for some, it is popularity, for some, it is money, etc! We keep running behind something in life that is actually not necessary, be it a "perfect" body, a "perfect" home, a "perfect" family, or basically a "perfect" life. There's no such thing as perfect, it is what society tricks you to believe is perfect, everything has always been perfect the way it is!
And that is why failing need not mean imperfect. By failing, you understand why it doesn't work and why something else works. Life is simple if you accept things the way they are. By failing, you not only learn acceptance but also learn how to persevere and become resilient, which are two important factors that lead to success. Failing is okay! Accept your scars and the number of times you fall down. It is going to get better. We are definitely gonna fight through this and come out and tell the world that we have succeeded too. Do IF AND ONLY IF YOU LOVE WHAT YOU ARE DOING. That is more important. Make sure to take care of yourself - physically as well as mentally.
Do fail how much ever times possible but make sure to take your lesson from it and apply the learning next time, coz why waste time learning the same lesson twice? Come on, you might be slow but this is going to get better with time. In my eyes, YOU ARE THE BEST!
CONCLUSION

You got this! Failing is necessary while honesty plays an equally important role. Never mind who's watching you while you're putting in your hard work, what matters is it's YOU WATCHING YOURSELF, what else matters?

It's okay to fail, be honest with YOU, no one else is responsible for you except YOU, keep in mind: your FUTURE SELF is WATCHIND YOU!

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