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@gmo · 02 Aug 2021
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Wie probeert ons te ontmoedigen

Ze hebben gemerkt dat er mensen zijn die willen dat het goed gaat, maar niet beter dan zij, en als dat gebeurt, hebben ze een enigszins raadselachtige houding en manieren om zich te gedragen om je geest en verlangen weg te nemen, ze willen gewoon je illusies of projecten doorbreken.

Vriendschappen, familie, naaste mensen verschijnen met zinnen als „Ik denk dat die reis overbodig lijkt”, „het is beter om je op iets anders te concentreren”, „Ik zie er heel blij uit, maar je moet het niet doen”, „Ik zie de toekomst van wat je doet niet”.

Net als deze zijn er veel impertinente zinnen die gewoon boeien zijn die ze willen plaatsen omdat ze je moeten ontmoedigen.

Soms worden die opmerkingen gemaakt, wetende of niet dat ze ons pijn doen, maar het belangrijkste is om te weten hoe je ze moet behandelen.

Merk op dat als een persoon respectvol, empathisch en psychologisch volwassen is, hij nooit zou proberen de geesten van anderen af te maken, misschien een constructieve mening of kritiek zou geven, maar nooit zal proberen te demotiveren of vernederen.

Die mensen die zichzelf proberen op te leggen, geloven zichzelf alleen superieur om onze vooruitgang en zelfs ons geluk te vernietigen, we kunnen niet meer hebben dan ze alleen op hun niveau of lager kunnen zijn.

Wie ons wil ontmoedigen wat hij echt doet, is ons verachten omdat hij het niet leuk vindt wat we doen, wat we leuk vinden, of wat we zijn.

Wat kunnen we doen?
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Omring jezelf met mensen die je motiveren om te groeien en jezelf te overwinnen, die blij zijn met je prestaties en vooruitgang, wie als je een hand nodig hebt, er zijn om het te leggen.


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  • Comments (37)
Isabel.d
I think it's better to be away from people who have bad vibes, while those people consume your energy.
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Fabiola Diaz
We have to believe ourselves, have confidence that if we are going to achieve what we want and ignore the discouraging comments
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MAGALY
I keep those people away from my life, they always come to slow us down, criticize and hurt us
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Fahim Islam
This is good advice for people.
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keepfaithbaby
This is a very interesting article, I will consider to share it with friends and family
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leninJM
to deal with that it is important to know who we put in our lives, don't let toxic people decide how you should feel
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Aaron Cabrera
That's why we should not listen to people like that in our lives because they're not worth it.
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Nuno Neves
Some people are evil, some mean well but act in a evil way because they don't know otherwise, and some tell us what we want to ear just to shut us up.
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Silvia
Getting discouraged prevents us from achieving our goals there are envious people who suffer when you succeed and always make destructive comments
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Adalberto
During our lifetime we will always encounter negative people, who will try to destroy or disqualify our actions
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fanny
Linda publication is right what you say we should stay away from people like that, they act that way because they haven't achieved their goal because they are aware of others.
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Christiaanskunst
Those who humble others do so to hide their own insecurity. If you make another feel lower, you exalt yourself. A very sad characteristic of people. Someone who can see through this is wise and can deal with those people. Love your post!!!
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Marian
Nice post very complete I like the way you write.
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Mariana de Nava
These people abound everywhere and need to be identified to eliminate them from our environment.
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Nava U Jesús
There are people who simply don't want us to have around, those people are wolves dressed up as lamb but you always notice evil, envy and bad intentions, you just have to know who to tell us about our things, and that way we will know who to tell us what to tell. Yes, it does not add that it does not subtract.
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Soug
It is regrettable that there are people like that, but they exist. It doesn't matter, the key is to follow the instinct and get away from those people who have serious self-esteem problems.
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Chalija
Stay close to yourself and your feeling, the grass sometimes seems greener to another. Don't let yourself be discouraged..
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rorocando
Excellent publication very true, very good advice accepted. It's not easy we just need to be sure of ourselves and good fitness. Thank you
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Sarah Ben Avraham
This situation is something that we are going to live constantly, because we are surrounded by people who have moved away from humility and love for others
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Leo 1
I think this is a very melancholic argument for Monday morning.. Maybe be yourself in a little dip that you wrote this way.?
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Rudy Siedlecki 🌳
This argument starts with: “they”. Who are “they”? Maybe you're suffering from paranoia or something.. I've never heard the quoted phrases..
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enigma
Very often people react daunting because they themselves do not get those opportunities, because they are jealous, I've noticed many times..
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Rudi
You're very right to stay true to yourself, let no one ever tell you else
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Gustavo Perez
It's best to get away from those people as you mention it, always looking for people who add and don't subtract our lives.
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Animal lover crea D
You're absolutely right, listen to your own heart and feeling that's what you get the furthest with that I do, and it has taken me far.
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ppoli61
Unfortunately I underwent this type of treatment and I inflicted it in my turn. I have suffered from discouraging mother, who has always tried to convince me that I am worth nothing, that I breathe only because she allowed me to breathe and taught me to do... Show more
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abreusoleidy
Those types of people are sick with envy and selfishness, they think they are fine when they actually need professional help to be treated
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Eza Chavez
Envy is one of the great evils of man, always watching what the other does and nothing that bothers more than the other debt to succeed, so to those people, indifference, is the best formula
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Ernesto Amador
The best thing to do is not pay attention to it, completely ignore your words and move on
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fuenmayorr568
That's the ideal thing and it always happens to me when he talked about a project they all go against me, that's why I always support others' ideas and helped them as what I'm doing
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Maria
it is true but we must not be discouraged by this type of people, who do not give us anything
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Rosita&Charlene-Blogs-Creaties
You're absolutely right about this.. With ignoring, you can achieve quite a lot..
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Beatriz
You're right, those people are always in the middle where you unfold, and it's true or you have to listen to bad comments
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Niria
Well, if there are many of those people bother them that you succeed ignored always look forward
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Dewaputra
Listening to your inner voice is the best thing you can do! That is my opinion, of course.
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