'Wanneer wilt u naar huis?' 'Wat dacht u van nu?'


Ieder kwartaal verschijnt er een column van mij in het Meerlingen Magazine van de NVOM (Nederlandse Vereniging voor Ouders van Meerlingen). Omdat ik veel reacties heb ontvangen op mijn column heb ik besloten deze ook hier te plaatsen, zodat mijn column nog meer mensen bereikt.


Noud is opgenomen in het ziekenhuis om geobserveerd te worden. Na dag 2 hoorden wij dat hij er minstens twee weken zou liggen. De neuroloog maakt zich ernstig zorgen om zijn boosheid. Ik ook, want als hij boos blijft duurt de opname nog langer, maar ik snap zijn boosheid volkomen.

Door een fout is Noud weken later opgenomen. Inmiddels was hij zijn bed uit, fietste hij buiten rond en ging halve dagen naar school. Dag 1 in het ziekenhuis werd er door de pedagogisch medewerker een dagprogramma opgesteld. Furieus was Noud dat iedere minuut in het ziekenhuis werd geregisseerd. ‘Wie is zij om een speelmoment met mijn moeder in te plannen? Ik maak zelf uit of ik met mijn moeder wil spelen of niet. Ik heb vrije tijd nodig!’ Vanaf dat moment heeft hij een hekel aan deze vrouw die hij al jaren kent, maar niet de moeite nam om naar hem te luisteren. Tegen de verpleging laat hij duidelijk zijn haat naar haar weten, maar in haar gezicht speelt hij het spelletje mee. Fout op fout maakt zij bij de inschatting over mijn kind, maar haar bevindingen maken deel uit van de observatie en omdat Noud zich bij haar van de domme houdt, heeft zij geconcludeerd dat hij een lichtverstandelijke beperking heeft en dat heeft gevolgen voor de hele opname en het natraject. Inmiddels ben ik ook furieus. Deze vrouw heeft het helemaal bij het verkeerde eind. Iedereen die Noud kent weet dat hij geen verstandelijke beperking heeft. Maar Noud is boos en werkt niet mee. De verpleging die hij al jaren kent laat grote gaten vallen in Noud zijn vertrouwen en verzorging. Noud is groter en zwaarder en dat merkt hij maar al te goed. ‘Vanaf vandaag doen wij alles samen, want je bent te zwaar’, ‘We halen gewoon een luierdoekje onder de oksels dan ben je weer fris’, ‘Ik kan hem niet helpen, ik weet niet hoe de tillift werkt’, mevrouw kunt u komen Noud heeft gepoept en mijn collega’s zijn weg’. Al dit soort opmerkingen hoort hij dag in en dag uit in het ziekenhuis.

Ons lichtpuntje is als de andere kinderen op bezoek komen, maar het afscheid wordt steeds moeilijker. ‘Mama, wanneer komen jullie nu thuis? We missen jullie.’ Dus toen we een evaluerend gesprek hadden met de arts, pedagogisch medewerker en de verpleegster die een luierdoekje onder zijn oksels had gehaald, vroeg de arts; ‘Wanneer wilt u naar huis? en antwoordde ik ‘Wat dacht u van nu?’ Binnen twee uur waren we uit het ziekenhuis, was de kamer leeg, de kamer in het Ronald McDonaldhuis schoongemaakt en zaten we in de auto naar huis. ‘Eindelijk slaap ik weer samen met Wout’.

Frank Zappa
Biography Within rock Frank Zappa was considered a diverse talent. He was a brilliant guitarist, an unsurpassed band leader and an incomparable social satirist. He started in the 1960s as the leader of the crazy avant-rock pioneers The Mothers. His subsequent solo work included everything from jazz rock to orchestral pieces, always brought with the humour that was Zappa's trademark. He succumbed to cancer in 1993 but the astonishing fertile workaholic left behind an awesome oeuvre. Genius is a word that is too often used in pop music, but it definitely relates to Zappa. Zappa.com - Frank Zappa would have turned 80 years old on December 21, if he hadn't died on December 4, 1993, almost 27 years ago, at 52 years old.. And while we're working on numbers: the newly released album The Mothers 1970 (four CDs) is number 116 in its catalogue. The fact that production has not stopped after his death is due to the efforts of the heirs Zappa, who has been doing good works since the death of Zappa's wife Gail, with son Ahmet and Joe Travers, the manager of Zappa's legendary vault full of recordings, as driving forces. In the house he once inhabited, his complete oeuvre is stored in a separate wing. The impact of almost 53 years of Frank Zappa. More than a human life can actually contain. Director Alex Winter was given access to the personal archive of the musician, provocateur and 'experimentalist' Zappa (129 min.), who breathed his last breath after an eventful life and career in 1993. Reworked version of an episode of TROS TV Show Op Reis from 1991 - the longer original version can be found here, this version was edited just after the death of Frank. In this episode Ivo Niehe visits eccentric pop musician Frank Zappa in Los Angeles. In addition to singer Frank acts as an investment advisor on American television and as a mediator between American businessmen and entrepreneurs from the Eastern bloc. In his studio, based in his home in Hollywood, he takes care of all the music and recordings himself. CLUSTER 1993 Frank Zappa TV Special (1991) - The tragic true story of Frank Zappa Frank Zappa took creative risks that few musicians would consider. He also wrote experimental classical music and gallaced all over the world. But Frank Zappa's life wasn't always rosy. His upbringing was rocky and his family life was also hard. Here's the tragic story of Frank Zappa..
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The man in the hat “The hat man”
Within that phenomenon known as shadow people there are many sightings about a being that shares characteristics with this phenomenon this being is commonly known as “the man in the hat” what is surprising about this being is the description given by people who have sighted it give because this is almost always the same and when it is not only has small differences it is usually described as a large humanoid figure that carries what seems to be is a long trench coat which reaches its ankles and its unique hat drink. It is said there are two types of men in the hat -The first and most passive is said to resemble the figure of a nineteenth century detective who manages to see as a shadow which is immediately static for a few minutes as soon as it makes eye contact with it until it gradually fades to it seems that it is only interested in watching and keeping people observed.. -the second “The evil” said this because it is said that it is negative energy that is made corporeal this resembles a very tall man with a black trench coat. His top hat or his eyes either red or black always dense some say they can notice factions of a man of a mature age and a gold watch. It is not known the real origin or what is precisely this strange being. Some people say they are beings of other dimensions which manifest themselves in the form of shadows and others say they are demonic entities who feed on the negative energies of the world many researchers of the paranormal have tried to give a reason to the apparitions of this being within what they concluded are originated by a series of bad experiences and negative emotions that accumulate in a precise place to create a negative energy such that it becomes corporeal yet this does not explain the effect that has on people who come to feel their living presence the terror caused by their presence and the apparitions in so many places of the world and its almost constant presence in sleep paralysis and night terrors CASE “HAT MAN (the man in the hat) IN"VILLENA” The story we are going to tell happened in the neighborhood of “la Morenica” of Villena, specifically in the 1990s. Inés and Roberto was a marriage of newlyweds, they bought a pretty and cozy apartment, it wasn't a great wonder either but they were happy anywhere. One day they were moving, Inés was cleaning the bathroom while her husband was climbing furniture among other things more with a friend of his, when suddenly the girl felt a chill on his back along with a presence behind him. In principle she thought it was her husband, but looking more closely there was no one.. Inés blamed it on the tiredness of those days, between work and moving I had a lot of stress. It was a couple of weeks and they were already settled on the floor, Roberto noticed that his wife was pretty weird lately since the move.. The boy asked him why he was so taciturna, to which she told him it was nothing, that nothing was happening. That same night something happened that Ines will never forget. Already lying down, Inés could not hit eye, Roberto was already asleep when suddenly they began to hear blows; “Knock... knock... knock..." A cada rato se escuchaban tres golpes con la misma intensidad, la chica fue a ver que era lo que estaba sucediendo, provenía de la puerta que daba a la escalera, de nuevo los tres golpes, Inés iba poco a poco acercándose la puerta, los sonidos se intensificaban a lo que ella grito: "¿Quién es?" Al decir en voz alta estas palabras de repente esos dichosos golpes pararon, nuestra protagonista miró por la mirilla de la puerta pero estaba muy oscuro, encendió la luz del recibidor, se armó de valor y abrió la puerta, nada más abrirla sintió en su rostro una extraña brisa bastante fuerte y de malas sensaciones. Apart from all this seemed like everything was right, went to the portal and nothing, there was no one there. While he was still out he was totally paralyzed, he heard those same blows inside his house.! He closed the door fast, felt again that presence of other days, a heavy and intimidating presence, walked a few meters down the corridor and almost reaching his room looked back, could not believe what he was seeing, it was a tall and very dark shade, with a “top hat” and what looked like a long nose! Inés went into his room and called her husband, told him what happened, but he didn't believe him at all, he told him that surely his imagination had played him a bad pass. A few months passed and Inés fell ill and had to be admitted to the hospital, Roberto was taking care of her many days in the hospital.. A few days later, Inés's mother decided to take care of her a weekend and the boy returned to the floor, tired decided to take a shower and try to sleep a little, although concern for his wife did not let him rest. When he was about to sleep, noises were heard in the kitchen, Roberto got up and felt a rare presence, he had the feeling that there was someone there, but he knew perfectly that he was alone. He looked in the kitchen and in the washing machine room, but everything was in order. He decided to go back to bed, just as he was down the corridor he fixed to the back where the stairs door was, there was something there, it was the same shadow that said Inés, Roberto was paralyzed for a few seconds, that shadow was staggering from side to side! The boy turned on the lights and the shadow disappeared. Shortly after this, Inés was diagnosed with a serious illness and after a few weeks Roberto was out of work. They were having a bad streak, they ran out of a floor and had to go back to their parents. Currently they are fine, Inés recovered quite a lot and Roberto is working on a new job, they don't want to remember that tragic time they had to live. As for the apartment they bought it again by other people There are many sightings of this being Even I had experiences with this entity the most recent was just over a month ago when I appeared at night while trying to sleep I remember hearing how they ripped the door and after a minute I heard how it opened and felt the incredibly tense atmosphere and the presence of this being that I could see at the door of the room but felt it to the side of me at the time I tried to take my cell phone to take a picture and have evidence however for your convenience my body felt really heavy and when I try to take my cell phone I shut up but my body felt really tired I was looking at that being until I fall asleep have you ever had an experience with this being? #paranormal #thehatman