08/13/2018.. Unexpected death and after earthly life

I'm rather sensitive to people who have died. They “visit” me unexpectedly or I invite them. In the latter case I therefore have a serious problem or just a question that is a little less intense. Not that I always get clear answers, but in general I can go one step further. Even if only that they make me quiet. Knowing that I'm not alone and my dear deceased dear people are always around me. A friend of mine always says lovingly, “It's always busy in your house. It's like you're not living alone. “ Or would my junk mean😉
As you know (and if not, please refer to the link Daddy don't run so fast. ) my father died very young. In his sleep to myocardial infarction.
I was also very young and from then on I have always known and felt that my father was with me. Sometimes even so literal that he sat on my bed. I thought it was mighty beautiful.

Years later and an intense year course on mediumship, I have already been able to pass on beautiful messages from the deceased on, for example, the question: 'How are you?. And always the answer was that they are happy and that they are doing very well. And I saw and felt them happy, too.

At some point I was actually curious about his' being 'on the other side. He also indicated that he has found peace and peace in it and that he is well.
I wanted to know what it was like to be so suddenly snatched away from your family, your life.

His answer was pretty clear.
“I was very confused after my death. Shocked, too. Suddenly I wasn't with you guys anymore. I didn't understand anything about that. My mother stood next to me, and I understood even less about it, because she had died. I really had to get used to the idea that I'm no longer a physical part of my family. I also had a form of mourning. Processing what happened to me. It took me a long time (earthly time*), partly because I felt your grief and the mess it caused in your lives. That was hard to experience. But know that I'm always there. And you especially know it!

What I'm saying with my story is that you always need time to process earthly life. One takes longer than the other. That is due to the circumstances. For example, my mother symbolically showed me (she was in bed) that she was tired of her life on earth. But being with my father, she loved and strengthened her in her healing.

* Only on earth is 'worked' with time. On the other side there is no time and space, but Souls who have passed over speak in earthly time to clarify it.