By @vanrupstotvlinder now shared: I spoke to @Anneke Polderman-Plaisier from @Pastorale practice 'About the Bridge' the other day and she told me about a beautiful piece, she had read it somewhere. It was about bereavement and the writer hadn't really praised this' name '. No, on the contrary. He even called it damaging and 'evil'. And do you know why? Because the word, really, harms many people. Maybe you have recognition and understand exactly what this writer means. Yes, I think his wording may fully match how you feel. Look, in the word processing, one often speaks of a form of acceptance, BUT THAT HURTS. How can you accept that your loved one is not allowed to be there anymore. You feel protest, you feel angry, you feel grief. They tell you to fight, but your gut doesn't want this! Bereavement actually indicates that you can process it and that you have to give it a spot. Pick up, put aside and continue with your life. But you know, there's no place where you can park it and bereavement can't be learned from a booklet either. No, NOT! Bereavement is indeed a STUPID WORD. I agree with Anneke and the writer, he chose to INTERWEAVING, because it's part of your life forever.
by: a Voice of Thoughts

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