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vanrupstotvlinder
Joined 05 Nov, 2016
Ik heb mijn eigen praktijk voor verlies- en rouwbegeleiding. Ik bied online cursussen aan over verlies en rouw bij de jeugdigen. Tevens ben ik kinderboekenschrijfster. Ik schrijf verschillende verhalen, haal mijn inspiratie vooral bij de kinderen vandaan waar ik werk.
Voor een aantal van de posts die ik hier plaats op Yoors, vraag ik een kleine bijdrage. Deze bijdrage zal onder andere worden besteed aan KWF kankerbestrijding en tevens aan ontwikkeling van nieuwe cursussen en boeken die ik in mijn praktijk kan aanbieden. Dus het lezen van deze posts wordt extra gewaardeerd.
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Your end of life. A difficult topic, but good to think about!
Encaustichris
1 month ago
We're gonna die someday. All of them. Without exception. It's not an optimistic start of my blog, I'm aware of that, but it's true. And I admit: it's not my favorite topic to think about either, and yet I do it with some regularity. Pretty recently it occupied me more than ever: our neighbor, for whom we were caregivers, fell down, and deteriorated hard. She was 92, and she was always clear about ...
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Doctor, explain...
vanrupstotvlinder
2 weeks ago
#doctor #doctors #sickness #cystitis #niersteen #cancers #womb #wombhalscancers #hoop #wishing #kinderwens #howtodealwith Weekly recording - The recording eventually became longer than thought. Initially, there was hope that after a day, maybe two days the second cure could still take place. Unfortunately, there was so much blockage as a side effect of chemo and medication that it really would not...
Dokter, been eens uit... - Deel 21
vanrupstotvlinder
2 months ago
#dokter #dokters #ziekzijn #blaasontsteking #niersteen #kanker #baarmoeder #baarmoederhalskanker #hoop #wensen #kinderwens #howtodealwith Mooie inhoud. Responsief. - Lorem Ipsum is gewoon dummy tekst van de drukkerij en zetindustrie.
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Doctor... explain - Part 20
vanrupstotvlinder
2 months ago
#dokter #dokters #ziekzijn #blaasontsteking #niersteen #kanker #baarmoeder #baarmoederhalskanker #hoop #wensen #kinderwens #howtodealwith After the first course - The first days after the cure I always felt very nauseous. The tired was gone pretty soon, actually. The Friday after the first cure it became real drama for my feelings. Already in the morning I was so sick that I had a lot of vomiting....
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Doctor... explain - Part 19
vanrupstotvlinder
2 months ago
#dokter Start with the chemo - Very soon I had a conversation with the medical oncologist to discuss how and what about the chemotreatments. I was already allowed to start this on December 1st. Now all of a sudden it all went very fast. In the conversation with the medical oncologist, the last points were discussed before I actually started treatment. Many side effects that might occur, hair loss ...
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Doctor... explain - Part 18
vanrupstotvlinder
2 months ago
#dokter #dokters #ziekzijn #blaasontsteking #niersteen #kanker #baarmoeder #baarmoederhalskanker #hoop #wensen #kinderwens #howtodealwith SECOND OPINION - After a good and extensive conversation with my treating gyneacologist, I finally got a second opinion for the LUMC. In this hospital, there would be a possible possibility to perform a saving operation. All my hopes had now been settled in this...
Doctor explain... - Part 17
vanrupstotvlinder
2 months ago
#dokter #dokters #ziekzijn #blaasontsteking #niersteen #kanker #baarmoeder #baarmoederhalskanker #hoop #wensen #kinderwens #howtodealwith Keep hoping - Since I had already heard that little would be grown, I already knew I had to keep my hope. Surely there would still be opportunities to be able to conceive independently even though the cancer is now? I really didn't leave it at all that because o...
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Doctor explain... - Part 16
vanrupstotvlinder
2 months ago
#dokter #dokters #ziekzijn #blaasontsteking #niersteen #kanker #baarmoeder #baarmoederhalskanker #hoop #wensen #kinderwens #howtodealwith start fertility trajectory - So said, so done. The fertility trajectory was started. Initially, you will receive a puncture schedule for 12 days. You start first 5 days with one prick a day and then there are two a day until the puncture takes place to get the c...
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Doctor explain...
vanrupstotvlinder
3 months ago
#dokter #dokters #ziekzijn #blaasontsteking #niersteen #kanker #baarmoeder #baarmoederhalskanker #hoop #wensen #kinderwens #howtodealwith NO TREATMENT IN THE AMC - All right, so that was obvious. No treatment possible in the AMC, but where is it? How now? Did I actually have to give up my wish? Give up because a doctor thought I was too fat for treatment? Obviously, I did not agree to this. Almost...
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Doctor explain... - Part 14
vanrupstotvlinder
4 months ago
#dokter #dokters #ziekzijn #blaasontsteking #niersteen #kanker #baarmoeder #baarmoederhalskanker #hoop #wensen #kinderwens Appointment at the AMC - After the call with the referral of the AVL to the AMC, it was again to be patient until the next appointment. On 30 September I was able to go to the clinic gyneacology in the AMC. The AVL didn't send me here for nothing, so I went there with good hop...
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Doctor explain... - Part 13
vanrupstotvlinder
4 months ago
#dokter #dokters #ziekzijn #blaasontsteking #niersteen #kanker #baarmoeder #baarmoederhalskanker #hoop #wensen #kinderwens Waiting in suspense again. - Then you finally think you'll get into a trajectory, but still! After the follow-up investigation had been, it was again waiting. Those tensions again. What would be found now? Could it all be worse than it already was? Or was I done with it now? I...
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Doctor explain...
vanrupstotvlinder
4 months ago
#dokter #dokters #ziekzijn #blaasontsteking #niersteen #kanker #baarmoeder #baarmoederhalskanker #hoop #wensen #kinderwens Follow-up investigation - Faster than expected, I was already called by the AVL. The follow-up examination they wanted to do under anesthesia would only take place after 3 to 6 weeks after the previous appointment, so the phone call I received less than two weeks later complet...
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Doctor explain... - Part 11
vanrupstotvlinder
4 months ago
#dokter #dokters #ziekzijn #blaasontsteking #niersteen #kanker #baarmoeder #baarmoederhalskanker #hoop #wensen #kinderwens Other hospital - Everything was in operation, I had received a referral for the AVL. According to my doctor, I would be in good hands there and they could set up a treatment plan soon. It was now waiting for the appointment. Fortunately, that waiting didn't take very long. I w...
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Doctor explain...
vanrupstotvlinder
4 months ago
#dokter #dokters #ziekzijn #blaasontsteking #niersteen #kanker #baarmoeder #baarmoederhalskanker #hoop #wensen #kinderwens Keep hope - The results that were given after the examination under anesthesia could not be true. It wouldn't be that bad, would it? I'm sure it would all be okay, right? I didn't assume the worst at all. On the 3rd of August I would get the final result of what was found. Mor...
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A Dangerous Friendship - Part 38 (Last Part)
vanrupstotvlinder
5 months ago
#loverboy #loverboyproblematiek #loverboyproblematieken #thema #youngadult #youngadultbooks #youngadultboeken #zomer #zomervakantie #yoors As she runs, the tears shoot her in the eye. She's trying to control these, but she can't. She starts sobbing more and more violently. The tears flow so much that she even starts to see blurry. She doesn't even see what's happening around her. It doesn't hurt h...
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A dangerous friendship - Part 37
vanrupstotvlinder
5 months ago
#loverboy #loverboyproblematiek #loverboyproblematieken #thema #youngadult #youngadultbooks #youngadultboeken #zomer #zomervakantie #yoors While Anne is surrounded by Remco's friends, the panic hits her throat. “How the hell did she get into this situation?”, she thinks. What all started with a fun and innocent friendship, now seems to have been a dangerous friendship. “What do Remco's frien...
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A dangerous friendship - Part 36
vanrupstotvlinder
5 months ago
#loverboy #loverboyproblematiek #loverboyproblematieken #thema #youngadult #youngadultbooks #youngadultboeken #zomer #zomervakantie #yoors “Anne, what are you absent,” her mother notes at breakfast. “Nothing's going on,” Anne says. Her mother looks at her father and gently shakes her head back and forth. “Let it go,” her mother says to her father. “I'll talk to her later.” Joris ha...
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A dangerous friendship - Part 35
vanrupstotvlinder
5 months ago
#loverboy #loverboyproblematiek #loverboyproblematieken #thema #youngadult #youngadultbooks #youngadultboeken #zomer #zomervakantie #yoors “You really like me, don't you?”, Remco asks Anne. She looks his way with a somewhat surprised look and asks why he asks. “If you really liked me, you would do anything for me,” he says. Anne feels completely overwhelmed and doesn't really know what he ...
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A dangerous friendship - Part 34
vanrupstotvlinder
5 months ago
#loverboy #loverboyproblematiek #loverboyproblematieken #thema #youngadult #youngadultbooks #youngadultboeken #zomer #zomervakantie #yoors The picture taken is anything but disappointing to her. In fact, the picture has actually become quite fun. 'Would Remco have a hidden talent for photography? ' Anne wonders. “He can take more pictures of me, “she thinks. Would she ask him that? No, she's j...
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A dangerous friendship - Part 33
vanrupstotvlinder
5 months ago
#loverboy #loverboyproblematiek #loverboyproblematieken #thema #youngadult #youngadultbooks #youngadultboeken #zomer #zomervakantie #yoors The next day Remco brought again a present for Anne. “I feel pretty bad about what happened yesterday,” he says. “Your phone that fell into the water and everything, I just wanted to comfort you afterwards.” Anne looks at him amazingly: 'Would he mean w...
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A dangerous friendship - Part 32
vanrupstotvlinder
5 months ago
#loverboy #loverboyproblematiek #loverboyproblematieken #thema #youngadult #youngadultbooks #youngadultboeken #zomer #zomervakantie #yoors “Come sit with me, “Remco says. Slightly irritated because her phone is soaked, she does what she's asked of. She notices that she starts to irritate herself slightly by Remco's behavior. Since they went swimming with his friends, he has been showing more a...
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A dangerous friendship - Part 31
vanrupstotvlinder
5 months ago
#loverboy #loverboyproblematiek #loverboyproblematieken #thema #youngadult #youngadultbooks #youngadultboeken #zomer #zomervakantie #yoors The following days there will also be a meeting with Remco's friends. It is a very hot week and it is nice cooling in the pool. Meanwhile, Anne feels more and more free in her actions and lets. It almost feels normal to hang out with boys right now. Her tension...
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A dangerous friendship - Part 30
vanrupstotvlinder
5 months ago
#loverboy #loverboyproblematiek #loverboyproblematieken #thema #youngadult #youngadultbooks #youngadultboeken #zomer #zomervakantie #yoors Finally, she can go to the park. “Are you home before dinnertime?”, asks her mother. “Yes, Mom, I promise.” And then Anne leaves for the park, towards Remco. When she arrives at the park after ten minutes of cycling, she already sees Remco at the agreed...
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A dangerous friendship - Part 29
vanrupstotvlinder
5 months ago
#loverboy #loverboyproblematiek #loverboyproblematieken #thema #youngadult #youngadultbooks #youngadultboeken #zomer #zomervakantie #yoors During breakfast Anne sits at the table with a big smile. This is just not very long. Her little brother Joris is in a heavy bully again. He makes annoying comments: “Anne has a boyfriend, Anne has a boyfriend”. “Quiet now”, hisses Anne at her little br...
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