#blogs #hooggevoeligheid #schrijven #mening What are before and after parts of being highly sensitive?

I notice that many people see it from the beginning. When I met my mentor he asked this directly. My study coach also figured it out pretty quickly. These kinds of people appreciate it very much and are able to handle it very well. I'm glad I learned what I need at what time.
Also, it's something I tell people more often now. At first, I saw it as an insult or even a disability. I have learned over the years that it is actually a gift that not many people accept or understand. It's a tricky thing.
On my internship, I have trouble communicating. Why? I'm having trouble with people and being social. I find it difficult to start or even answer conversations. I don't know what I can and can't do anymore. Do I have to stare at them right in the eye or can I look away? My boss came to me the other day to say he'd love it if I talked to the customers a little more. They like to say things to me because I'm the girl and the new one there. They ask, for example, what I do or which school I come from.
I nod and laugh often because I also take care of things that are not offensive. Sometimes too hard. My boss explained that I just have to be honest and just say what I think about it here. Even if I don't like it. Since then I can deal better with them and keep a little more big for customers when they talk to me. I can even make jokes that you can take very wrong.
I think the disadvantage is that I live in the construction world and that it is mainly surrounded by strong jokers and loud sounds and devices. You need to be very careful and be sure to pay attention to what you do. I can get overexcited and not work. I will certainly struggle with that more often but if I really want to do this it is my problem to solve this.

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