We all are social animals who love to interact with each other. But that doesn't mean that everyone else feels comfortable making friends. Some people might face problems in making friends as they might be introverts.. As I was never an Introvert so I never faced problems in making friends. Moreover, my nature is good which also helps me in making friends.
You should have a good nature if you want to make a lot of friends. A person with good nature is polite, kind, understanding, humble, friendly, patient, etc. Hence, you need to have all these qualities to make genuine friends.
Now I am going to tell you the reasons for having a lot of friends.
I never felt any kind of difficulty in making friends because I am an extrovert. If you are not an extrovert, you might face difficulties in making friends. So what can you do to make friends if you are an introvert? You need to develop those qualities which I mentioned above. If you are facing difficulty developing the qualities all together then you can start one at a time.
For example, if you want to become understanding, you need to observe others. Moreover, you need to imagine yourself in their situation to understand them.
To understand others I observe their activities and imagine myself in their situation. This helps me to understand what they want and what kind of nature they are having. Of course, I don't make everyone my friends after observing them. I stay away from negative, toxic, and bad people. So you should also keep these things in mind. You don't have to be friends with toxic people. They will always be mean to you and take advantage of you. It's better to have no friends than to have toxic friends.
Having a good nature
I have a good nature which helps me in making friends. I am never mean to anyone, moreover, I understand their mindset which helps in making them comfortable with me. Your aim should be to make them comfortable with you. If they are not comfortable with you, they will not like to spend time with you. Spending a lot of time with every friend is not mandatory to maintain a friendship.
I am saying this because I have strict parents who never allowed me to go anywhere. They didn't even allow my friends to come home so the only time I spent with them was in school and college. Therefore, you need to make a good bond with your friends to maintain your friendship. Don't be mean to anyone because I would also not like to be friends with a mean person.
So these were the reasons I have a lot of friends. Your aim should be to make genuine friends, increasing the number of fake friends is of no use. Hope you liked reading the post! Comment below, I would love to know your views.