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Lars Grijsen
Lars Grijsen
· 30 Jun 2022
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Geestelijke begeleiding – een kennismaking

Een leven lang leren, dat spreekt mij altijd wel aan! Geregeld heb ik afgelopen jaren een opleiding of cursus gevolgd om m’n kennis up-to-date te houden. Vaak had het iets te maken met preken of missionair kerk-zijn. Dit seizoen ben ik begonnen aan een opleiding geestelijke begeleiding van het instituut School of Spiritual Direction. Deze opleiding wilde ik al langere tijd volgen, maar tot nu toe kwam het telkens niet goed uit. De hoeveelheid leeswerk en opdrachten zijn best aanzienlijk, maar ik geniet er enorm van om weer in de ‘spreekwoordelijke’ schoolbank te zitten.

Wat is geestelijke begeleiding?
Christelijke geestelijke begeleiding is al heel oud en gaat terug naar de vroege kerk in de eerste eeuwen na Christus. Een beproefde vorm van christelijke spiritualiteit kun je wel zeggen. In het Engels heet het ‘spiritual direction’. De richting van geestelijke begeleiding is een reis van het hoofd naar het hart. Van woorden alleen naar Gods aanwezigheid zoeken en ervaren. Geestelijke begeleiding is een biddend proces waarin je een diepere, persoonlijke relatie met God (verder) ontwikkelt. Het is dus niet zozeer gericht op een probleem wat je ervaart, maar gericht op jouw relatie met God. In geestelijke begeleiding wordt actief gezocht naar de derde persoon in het gesprek: naast de twee gesprekspartners is God als Begeleider met een hoofdletter aanwezig. Geestelijke begeleiding gaat niet zo zeer over advies of instructies geven, maar in de ontmoetingen is er volop tijd voor een gesprek en krijgen vormen van gebed en stilte een plek.

Mijn eigen ervaring met geestelijke begeleiding
In mijn opleiding leer ik alle ins en outs over geestelijke begeleiding. Onderdeel ervan is het ook zelf ontvangen. Daar ben ik al iets eerder mee begonnen, gewoon omdat het ook goed is als je de opleiding niet doet. Eens in de 6-8 weken ontmoeten we elkaar. Mijn geestelijk begeleider kan goed luisteren en stelt eenvoudige, maar goede vragen. Soms denk ik vooraf: waar moet ik het over hebben vandaag? In de ontmoetingen komen dan toch altijd verhalen en herinneringen boven. We bespreken wat er gebeurt in mijn leven. We zoeken naar hoe God me leidt en wat hij zegt. Bijna altijd krijg ik meer inzicht en helderheid over processen en beslissingen in mijn werk en prive-leven. Wat bijzonder is, is dat we vaak een beeld of metafoor op het spoor komen wat de situatie of mijn zoektocht precies beschrijft. Zo’n beeld helpt dan om er later op terug te komen of er een langere tijd over na te denken. In onze ontmoetingen kan ik ook eerlijk delen over mijn spiritualiteit. Soms kan ik daar mooie dingen over delen. Maar ook mijn luiheid of lage motivatie (die er zo nu en dan ook is) hierin kunnen delen maakt me nederig en heractiveert ook weer. Ik las laatst ergens dat een mens meer is dan data alleen. Het menselijke lichaam is bezield. We hebben een ziel en dat besef is denk ik broodnodig om er goed voor te zorgen. Geestelijke begeleiding helpt mij in contact te komen met mijn ziel. En met God.

#geestelijkebegeleiding #spiritualdirection #spiritualiteit #religie #faith

  • Comments (36)
kevinbacca92
the spiritual part of the human being is important, although sometimes we don't develop it so often, and also each religion or belief has its own ways of doing it, but it is always present, there is something that tells us that it exists.
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Susann cherry
I like this type of blog because I think that spiritual is more important than other things in these times that we live so plasticop and superficial
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Freli
The body goes beyond the physical plane, being what you have spoken, the spiritual, where you can access many things.
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Alfred
The spirit makes more of our lives than we can take into account something to know It's fascinating:D
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Néstor David
It's an extensive but interesting article, I wish you the best of luck finding that spiritual side that we all want.
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Lety Zambrano Cartaya
This article is as interesting as people's answers, and it may be that the spiritual part is important is each person's interpretation
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Florencia Sendell
Even if many do not want to see it that way, the spiritual part in the human being has been vital for so many years, it will be for a reason,
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naf1971naf
I'm happy for you @Lars Grijsen having a guide on the path that leads us to God and walking it with a cheerful attitude is magnificent, I hope you will soon find that spiritual approach
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Maria
our spiritual part is as important as any physical part, we will not be happy if we are not at peace, thank you for sharing
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Kinderworkshops Petra
Nicely worded. I myself am not ecclesiastical and believe in my own way. I do believe there is more between heaven and earth.
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miradademujer36
There are very few who really care about the spiritual part today when everything is superfluous but how good of you if you take the time to develop
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enigma
Nice training, seems to me. It doesn't just have to be Christian-inspired. I think you can generally go through spiritually so that everyone can benefit from it. Curious about your experiences.
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Lars Grijsen
@enigma surely. Spirituality is not reserved for the Christian faith. This training, however, is. Incidentally, I can imagine that a concrete belief also helps in spirituality. If you e.g. don't know what you believe in, it's also more difficult to experience that spiritually. nonetheless?
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Ali
It is very important to take into account the spiritual part, since we are a tripartite being composed of body, soul and spirit, although sometimes we don't know exactly how it works, but by studying it we can understand it more easily.
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mlourdesbermudez
Hello how are you. Good point. Nowadays you see a lot of this, of course; in Venezuela! People are looking for a place of prayer and they give themselves a lot with the name of: house of prayer.
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Alberto
It is a constant search that occurs through the search for an evolution, such as having more knowledge of the spiritual life.
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armandofuen2012
Connection that is our soul is the spirit that keeps us in the physical body that we have to connect to go further
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Encaustichris
Wow. What a story. I am not active in the church, but I am convinced that there is more between heaven and earth. I hope you can and want to share some insights here on Yoors, of course only if that feels right for you.
In any case, I think you're going into this new course.! Good luck, fun and happiness!
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Daniel
The physical and spiritual parts are two in themselves, but you have to keep both because they are very useful for a balance
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EscudosDeportivos10
it is a fairly profound search and development for each person according to their religion, belief or perspective, I congratulate you for being in this constant search.
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Adrianna M
Exactly, I agree with some comments, the spiritual part will always be present in us, although each person has a different perspective of it.
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Dewaputra
That seems very interesting to me, provided that it does indeed go back to the first centuries of Christianity. That would mean that this spirituality is based on gnostics, as is reflected, among other things, in the Gospel of Thomas, which was later declared forbidden by the church in 325 AD.
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Lars Grijsen
@Dewaputra Gnosticism was not the only current in the first centuries of Christianity, though.!
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Marleidys364
the spiritual part of each person according to their belief is a very beautiful subject and I congratulate you for developing it in your life.
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Gabriela
I share the same thing that you do, it is vital for us to maintain our spiritual side, since it tends to sustain you many times, whatever your mentality.
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Madeleine
Nice piece of Lars! I always remember the soul of Tracey Chapman's beautiful song with that beautiful, wise text.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CoNtYC_XDC8
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Nathaniël
@Lars Grijsen I just saw your post appear in my mail and am very surprised that this is in a difficult period for me.! Maybe we can talk about spiritual things sometime. I'm very interested in it and you might be able to help me with that:)
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Rasher
It is essential to have that spiritual part in our course because learning more things makes us connect with more new things
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Mieke Van Liefde
It is very difficult to find a good spiritual counselor. Nice that there are courses for that (I didn't know). Of course, you can also just pray that the right person (s) come your way (whatever works). Ultimately, it is always God who leads.
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danielojeda12
Sallos human beings, guidance or mental counseling, because learning is permanent if you make it so every day; but there are things that are forgotten. However, there are things that are not forgotten, such as riding a bicycle.
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