Are women without children inferior women?
Are there really people who don't have children looking at that? Or look down on them? I'm sure because I don't read anything else lately. I don't understand that. For years I assumed that I would never have children. Why did I assume that? Well just because I wasn't such a mother's mom. I liked kids, from a distance to say. But myself? Neah, not really. I didn't put that under chairs or benches either but I never got there. It seemed - in retrospect - as if people actually thought that was quite logical.
I don't know that feeling of longing for a child. I know, that probably sounds very crazy from my mouth. I thought that for a certain age had to make a choice: whether or not. And at well, well then I would go for it too, say and if that would not work for a certain age then I would leave it that way. It was very clear to me. Simply because I would assume that “life” is not for I also kept that “end date” for the last time. Maybe it's because I made it so much easier for me, but I don't understand the anger of women who are not going to receive compensation because there is no medical necessity. Before everyone falls over me, I don't think the distinction between having a man or not having a man (whether or not because you don't like men) is okay for whether or not to get compensation for the treatment. I just never wanted the happiness of me on the plate of a child.
And maybe this is also the reason why I was not impressed by the miscarriages I had. I just accepted that this was the case. I assumed that such an egg should not become a child of mine or something. I was aware that one in the 10 pregnancies end in miscarriage. That's the way it is (for me then). Of course you are scared the first time but if I'm honest I was shocked by everything my body did while being pregnant.
Meanwhile, I have 4 children and yes, I have become an annoying mother clock (really!) But still..... I really understand why there are women who say no way and I really understand that there are women who did want to have children and who they didn't get that they love it, but I don't understand that there are mothers who seem to feel like an überwoman and that constantly I don't
