Phobias
Fears can paralyze you. Even so bad that it could have fatal consequences. Embracing someone who makes the fear of himself so great that it becomes a phobia can take a lot of you, but only then will you be able to show understanding, real understanding, not feigned.
People can have their judgment ready so quickly, and disapprove the behaviour of others, sometimes that disapproval really goes beyond all proportions, and that can also be understood by looking at it from the outside.About thirty years ago I had a unique opportunity that gave me ample opportunity to improve my empirification techniques. It was not easy, it cost me great pain and sorrow, but in the long run it made me a rich man. Rich in life experience, even though I was barely alive at the time.
It was a shock for my mother to see me lying in the hospital like a greenhouse plant. She was reminded of her husband's accident. He also had bandages on his head. He was in a coma, too. He had succumbed to his injuries. My mother's greatest fear was losing me, too. She couldn't stand to visit me regularly, yet she occasionally came by and complained herself.
I listened to her, couldn't say that I was capable of that, but that did give me insight. Otherwise, I might have interrupted her, even sent her away, said I had nothing to do with it, nothing at all, that it was me who had it hard, not her. Fortunately, fate gave me the opportunity to keep my mouth shut, and that allowed her again to overcome her fears. Until she finally got so far, she dared to admit it. “Then, for God's sake, die, and I can mourn you, and then I can get on with my life. Then die.” She was cured of her own fears, accepted my death. And me? I heard it. Thought about it. Because thinking was the only thing I was capable of.
Maar je eigen MOEDER??? Je haalt dan toch alles uit de kast om je kind in leven te houden?
Het is een idiote misvatting dat mensen die niet kunnen praten, dan ook niet kunnen horen. Mijn tante heeft 10 dagen geleden een hersenbloeding gekregen (is halfzijdig verlamd) maar ik heb in het ziekenhuis erop gestaan dat haar gehoorapparaten erin bleven. Als je niet kunt praten en dan ook nog eens niets zou horen, zit je helemaal in jezelf opgesloten. 😰