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@animallover1673353899 · 15 Dec 2021
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Vechten voor mijn kind 2

#pesten #verdriet #tranenverdriet 
Nou het jaar is bijna voor bij maar het probleem is nog niet op gelost
Ze blijven door gaan met pesten op school nu heeft ze het al moeilijk met leren op school en zou ze officieel
Naar de kerst vakantie naar speciaal onderwijs gaan maar de school werkt zo erg tegen met alles zo laat door sturen dat ze dus nu niet naar de kerst vakantie naar de nieuwe school kan
Ik word hier toch zo boos van. je staat zo machteloos als moeder en je ziet je lieve kleine meid in een hoopje ellende veranderen . En alleen maar zo dat de school in Januari weer geld voor haar krijgt
Ze wil gewoon niet meer naar school laatst zij ze. Mama als het zo moet had ik liever niet op deze wereld willen komen. En waarom stopt het pesten gewoon niet. En wat moet je daar dan weer op zeggen. Ik als moeder ben dan sprakeloos. Nu hebben ze een week eerder vakantie ik als moeder ben daar echt heel erg blij mee dan kan ze toch even tot rust komen en dan hoop ik met heel mijn hart dat ze weer wat vrolijker word en weer zin krijgt om leuke dingen te gaan doen in plaats dat ze zich verstopt op haar kamer
Zo jong en zo veel al mee gemaakt Af gelopen maandag was de crematie van opa en dinsdag was ze eindelijk op school en dan word ze gepest met het over lijden van haar opa en als je dan de school belt waar dit allemaal op slaat krijg je te horen hier kunnen we niks aan doen, we hebben dat niet gehoord dus ik denk dat u kind loopt te liegen. ik word hier zo moe van en heb er slapeloze nachten van en ben vooral boos en weet me af en toe gewoon geen raad meer waarom moet alles zo moeilijk gaan hier in Nederland en waarom mag een meisje van 10 met een beperking niet gelukkig zijn Waarom Waarom Waarom Het is allemaal de vraag Waarom

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Flying Eagle
Shall we @Crea D by the way, but all of them follow? Just to support her.
“No bullying, but the best” for this valuable star at the Yoors firmament.
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gverde245
It is regrettable that this situation is occurring with a child and the school becomes indifferent before this problem
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Animal lover
@gverde245 That's where I totally agree with you, it's just pathetic.
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marijke
this makes me really sad too. Look in that sweet snout of hers, I can't imagine anything. WHY!!💖😘
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Animal lover
@marijke Well, that's what I wonder every time why, but don't get an answer to it either.
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danielojeda12
What happens is that the child must face verbal or physical harassment or abuse by other children.
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qwertyuiop
It must be very difficult, the powerlessness and the setbacks, but especially the bullied and the reaction of school, you can keep your child out of school because of an unsafe learning environment, and if it is mentioned at school, you can tell your story... Show more
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Animal lover
@The Creative Bumblebea Thank you, the compulsory education is also involved, but because of the corona, everything is going so slow, today she is also at home and we will look again tomorrow.
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fanny
What is happening I thought things would go well when I change schools, how sad to see that the harassment of the girl continues and that schools do nothing to find a solution.
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Animal lover
@fanny She also goes from this school to special education, but this school is very opposed, so she can't start there in January.
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Sabina.
She has been treated very badly by her peers. I pity her children can be cruel and have inappropriate behavior. I know that she will be able to find a way to solve it by making you and your daughter happy.
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Kj
Sometimes schools don't teach children what they really need to learn, and most parents settle for that.
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Animal lover
@Kj So true, but I am not now in conflict with school every day, as a result she is home more than at school.
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Mirelle - Crea met Kids
What a terrible agony you have to go through. I hope the tide may turn soon and you can leave this bad time behind. This does not deserve anyone to experience this way and continue incessantly. Lots of love and strength and we live with you.!😘
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GMVDMinimalism
Unfortunately, there is nothing to do for me, except speak nice words of support and strength. With this; success and strength and love!
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rockstar
It's a very sad story, but I recommend you not to go to school, but to directly confront the parents who annoy your daughter and in that way try to improve the quality of life of your little one because through parents you could achieve more results .
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Animal lover
@rockstar Unfortunately, the mother is not speaking
baar has spoken to her several times and she denied every time her children do.
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Gustavo Perez
How sad that a child has to go through this difficult situation. I hope everything can be resolved soon.
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Arukah Tsur
My dear, all my life I have fought the bullies, my younger life with the fist. My older life with the pen. One thing that I have experienced is that the bully often is lacking and does not have a toolkit to deal with their own short comings. Perhaps we need... Show more
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Animal lover
@Arukah Tsur Well, I totally agree with you, but the Netherlands does not unfortunately have that, but I am always busy with topics what does bullying with a young child.
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Carmen Vidal
Hello friend, I have followed your problems closely, I know how it feels, I recommend that you look for an alternative, like going to give talks at your school, that people feel and see your pain and that of your daughter, you make publications, look inside these people to support you with placards, in short, there are also good people
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Animal lover
@Carmen Vidal Thank you, there are parents in school who support us, but the school does little to nothing, today she has a day when she is home.
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Juli.carmen
That people so unscrupulous that they don't let children live their childhood quietly and peacefully should receive exemplary punishment
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Animal lover
@Juli.carmen I totally agree with you there, I think in France, there has recently been harshly punished against bullying, someone here on Yoors told me.
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Alberto
I hope you manage to make the change about bullying and everything that is going on will be strong in these situations this must stop
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naf1971naf
I consider that the actions in the educational institution have already been exhausted, it is necessary to look for others that protect the vulnerable, in our case Venezuelan it would be Comdepro (Municipal Council for the Law and Protection of Children and Adolescents) @Flying Eagle  
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Animal lover
@naf1971naf That should indeed, but here in the Netherlands it is all very crooked.
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Millieballon
How stupid that it has now been postponed. You were so excited to start new at the other school.
Strength and keep looking ahead to the bright spot of the new school.
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bloguerouniversal
It is a pity that this is happening, parents undoubtedly play an important role when it comes to instilling values and respect for others.
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Animal lover
@bloguerouniversal I totally agree with you there, but if parents don't, everything gets out of hand.
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Vlindertje73
It's getting crazier in this country by the day! Bah, get the chills out of it. Had you read my post that I shared with you. I hope so before your daughter can go to another school. In any case, she's home for a week longer now. Strength!
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Animal lover
@vlindertje73 Yes, I am also happy that she has a week longer vacation, she can relax for a while and next year we will look on again, I will make a follow-up to this blog later, I am trying to post something every day now and soon, of course, the nice things about the holiday.
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mlourdesbermudez
As a teacher, I regret what is happening, where I work, I can say that bullyng does not exist because teachers have worked so that it does not happen and the students feel good.
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Animal lover
@mlourdesbermudez That's very nice to hear, so the Netherlands can definitely learn something from it.
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enigma
I totally understand that as a mom you find yourself powerless. Kids can be very hard, especially in a group. Often, indeed, they choose a victim. Very much that the school is doing so little.
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Animal lover
@enigma Well, I think that too, I think this is very sad about the Netherlands and that there are no thicker penalties for that.
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Daniel
The case is difficult because many times the school does not provide a solution to these situations, it is sad to see it. I hope she can enter a school where she is not bullied but I know that it will be possible to make her well
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Animal lover
@Daniel I fight just as long until she will see joy in life again earlier i don't stop
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Rosita&Charlene-Blogs-Creaties
That school doesn't learn from it. First, my kid is already ruining there and now yours is just really not normal. They do everything just for the money there.
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Gollo
What a terrible situation for both of us that she is suffering the same thing in the new school I am very sorry to find a way to share something different with her so that she feels more secure many blessings for your family.
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Alfred
There is something that can protect it? This got out of control. I feel like they should take more action on my part of the school. In general, you've done everything you can until you change schools.!
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Animal lover
@Alfredo everything already done, school does little to nothing.
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Eza Chavez
What helplessness every time I read about your girl, there should be a legal remedy that protects her from such injustice
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Animal lover
@Eza Chavez welcome here in the Netherlands here so not yes I'm trying to protect her but now I can't do anything
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Arshi
U should take some actions against them 😡 Bullying should be stopped. I hope and pray new school will be good for your daughter and she will forget all the things and start new journey !!
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Freli
Well, the situation of intimidation and bullyng is not an easy thing, I hope your situation improves, no one deserves to be treated like that.
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Ingeborgenzwerm
What a loving mother you are, I think that is worth a great complement too.
Furthermore, I totally agree with #FlyingEagle to support her with a heart under the belt.
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Flying Eagle
appalling! This beats everything, @Animal lover ! Fortunately, the Christmas holiday is indeed near, but still. You don't like this.!
Strength, (especially) also for Denisha/ @Crea D !
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Sadaf W.
I feel really sad while reading your Content. She is so young and cute. Bullying should be stopped. Just try to spend more time with your daughter and take her out. I hope and pray that she will come out and living her life happily.
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Loes
I totally understand that you don't want your girl in this school anymore. This is really beyond all the bounds. Maybe an idea to contact the subject official in your area? https://www.onderwijsconsument.nl/leerplichtambtenaar/  
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Animal lover
@Eimhier I have also all that would be working on it it is now so if she doesn't want she stays home so she goes if she wants she doesn't want to have them bad luck
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Niria
They are situations that sometimes cannot be controlled, hopefully the school offers you support and you feel a little relieved
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Animal lover
@Niria this school does nothing hope that she can go to the new school soon
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Madeleine
it's terrible that reaction from school and the slow stuff of a school like that. Every school knows that you will let a child start at a new school after a vacation. Incomprehensible indeed. And all because of that one answer money. How sad for your... Show more
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Dewaputra
What a terrible bad situation for you. Hopefully that new school will soon offer a solution and will be accepted there instead of bullied.
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Animal lover
@Dewaputra next year, she first has to go back to this school unfortunately because this school is bothering everything to allow her to go to the new school.
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vanrupstotvlinder
Oh, wow seriously, a school that responds to a death like that.? At this school, I would like to give a lecture on what impact a loss experience has on children. And then directly tell you the impact of teasing and bullying on a child. And even better the combination of these. Pfff, seems like there is no understanding at all.
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Animal lover
@vanrupstotvlinder for now I'm really tired of it and am happy with that extra week of vacation and then going back into combat next year
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Neider
it is sad that with so much progress such situations arise, where the most vulnerable suffer the most
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Live_love_laugh
what a violent story this is, I can totally imagine what it's like for your girl. I have also been the misfit many times
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